Any of you ladies in your third trimester think it’s okay for your SO to just not come home.. from a…

Do y’all live together? Does he check in?

That doesn’t seem normal at all. If my husband doesn’t come home, I’m calling the police, because he’s probably dead in a ditch somewhere. That’s crazy.

@mrschanandlerbong95, yes we do and the only way he msgs me, is if I msg him a few times.. and start getting mad. Then hits me with wth r u mad? Never been cool with this, he always would take me with him and he started this during my pregnancy. Pple say he’s probly nervous, but he makes it so much harder for me.. it sucks. And u have a good man, I wish he behaved like that

@joyfulmom2b this is totally unacceptable. What is he? A superhero? Like what could possibly be the justification for this? Nervous my ass. Time for more drastic measures. A husband is supposed to care for you. He's playing hide n seek? Change the locks on him .... Ok no don't do that. Decide what u think u should do.

@mokai08, yeah and when I explain how BS this is, he thinks I’m crazy or being hormonal, which actually makes me mad instead of upset.. all my friends n fam think this is bs, but he’s got immature friends which urge him to believe this is cool and normal. It bothers me so much, bc he said he didn’t wanna be like this at all in the beginning

You said that he use to take you with him, so you know where he goes then? Are you ok with that? If not, then tell him and tell him to stop! He should take you, your baby into consideration FIRST! Specially if it’s not for work.

My husband will sleep in his car maybe once a week, but it’s because 3hrs later after work he gets right back up to do a whole another work shift. He texts me too. We are both ok with.

But..... if you are not then he should not be doing that. If this continues after you ask him to stop, I would seek counseling.

Yeah, the friends. Always the friends. Nope. You gotta put your foot down. Depends what you are willing to risk but if you don't stop this now, who knows what else they can talk him in to. He has a lot of growing up to do.

F*CK NO!!!!!

@happymumoffour, yeah sometimes, he goes to friends and mostly gets drunk. Which I hate and have already told, if something where to happen and I can’t reach u or ur to messed up. U plan on missing ur child’s birth? I have no idea what’s going on in his head sometimes at all!! And I’d love for him to actually msg me and tell me he’s ok or ask if I am or even just I love you. He’s being selfish and the more pple tell him that, he pushes more. He bought up counseling then when I said yeah let’s do it, he back out n won’t

@mokai08, I Know!!! And I’ve tried to explain this to him! His one best friend even told me he’s like I don’t care if he does something stupid it’s funny, or if he gets arrested. Yet still goes out with him, and I’ve had his back throughout a bunch of sh!t idk how he can just turn his back to me like this. It’s disrespectful

@ladya16, agreed!

@joyfulmom2b he's not worried about u not having his back either. Smh.

@mokai08, Yeah starting to seem like it now that’s he’s good. Honestly he’s made the statements a lot abt how out of everyone he’s glad I’m pregnant with his kid bc he knows ima be a good mom but he brings the money in so I feel like he did this deal to make me stuck. Like he gets to enjoy whatever and I’m here to deal with all of this. It makes me livid

@joyfulmom2b maybe he does because either he doesn't care if you leave, or he thinks you'll never leave. I'd tell him to go

@sweetsap88, 😟