It’s Mother’s Day tomorrow, since my dad died in 2015, my mom met her now husband in 2017 and our relationship has been rocky. Her husband doesn’t like me much, I’m not sure if it is because I was a daddy’s girl or my dads only biological child. My brother was raised by my dad, but wasn’t his biologically. He and my brother get along great, and my brother and mom still have the relationship they’ve always had. I was accepting of my mother dating again, I encouraged it, but when she got married not even a year into the relationship it bothered me. What really broke our relationship was she originally told me I could rent my childhood home from her, then he talked her into selling it, so she put it up for sale and two weeks later it was sold. My kids, husband and I had no where to go, but thankfully got approved for a rental the same day the house sold. I tried to mend our relationship after that, but once again I opened up the door for her to hurt me, they wanted to “make it right” for selling the house. They “felt bad” so they bought a house and wanted us to move in to pay just the mortgage until it was paid off and then they would put it in our name. Once again two weeks until move date and now they say they want to move into this house. It’s their house, I didn’t ask them to do this, they offered. Shame on me for believing their intentions were good. Sadly I don’t think my mom and I will ever have a good relationship again. I’m sorry this is so long, it’s just heart breaking to have been so close to her and everything now is ruined.
Happy Mother’s Day mamas! Hope all of yours turn out better than mine.