Personally I don’t believe it’s ever okay to restrain someone and cut off a part of their genitals without consent. There’s no reason to do it. Doesn’t lower infection risks, and any infections he may get can be painlessly treated with antibiotics. Circumcision is a dangerous cosmetic surgery on a child that can’t consent and isn’t anesthetized.
My 2 year old hot circumcised at 1 years old and my baby in the way is going to do the same but yu should look up pros and cons and decide for yourself don’t let nobody bully you into doing something you don’t want to do.
Do your own research. However I find it super creepy and disgusting for other people to ask what I’m doing with my son’s’ penis, and I’m usually quick to remind them that it’s none of their business.
My hubby is intact and never had issues. Same as my 6 year old. My 8 month old is also intact and so far no issues. I've heard that either intact or not you just need to make sure you clean it well at each diaper change. But I really think it should be up to you. Do your research and think whats best for your baby. No one should make the decision for you. Good luck! ☺
@dessii3321 this is my 1st time being mommy and having a boy... Im going to get my baby boy circumcised because 1. He wont remember the pain 2. Heals faster when his a baby and 3. Its much better when they pee.. The little bits of pee does not get left behind and causes infection for them (info from my husband that had it done when he was older)... This is my opinion for my son... Every mother or mother to be is defferent.. But i do agree... NO harm in asking for opinions
@dessii3321, my friend who had it done with her little boy said to cover the incision with a little Vaseline when changing so it doesn't dry and get stuck to the diaper
@toridewey, yes this is my first and it’s a boy and my family’s asked if I was and I’m like well should I? Cause I have no clue about boys lol and yes I’ll most likely do it to.
@dessii3321, this will be my second but it's my first boy. I'm super nervous about getting it done and not knowing what to do with it when changing him after! I know it's not for everyone but for us we want it done and I'd rather get it done quickly then have him remember it. Also had a guy friend that wasn't circumcised until he could pay for it in his 20s and he said sex before it was done would tear the skin, bleed and hurt 😖 not that I want to think about my kid's future sex life but I don't want anything riping and bleeding!! Lol
@toridewey, yeah and I’ve asked my guy best friend and he says it’s better to. But since I’m a first time mommy I’m so scared and don’t know what to do
Just from my husband's experience.. his mom didn't have it done to him or his older brother as babies. They got it done when they were older and he says the healing took forever and he remembers the pain and wishes it was done as a baby.