My husband and I were supposed to BD last night but I waited on him to make the first move to at…
My husband and I were supposed to BD last night but I waited on him to make the first move to at least seem like he was into it or into me and he didn't. (I've been initating all the other times) He just looked at me and said "if you want to do it just do it". When i told him he makes me feel like I'm pushing it on him and I want him to want to do it or seem interested in it to. He sighed and said "like I said if you want to do it just say so I don't know why we always have to bring this stuff up. Just say yes or no and don't take and hour to decide if you want to or not." So I was to hurt to want to do anything anymore so I just rolled over and went to sleep trying not to get sad. He wanted to try for a baby this month to but acts like its whatever or a chore. When I want it to still be fun and I actually want to do it with him.
Morgan ·
Are you only wanting it during the fertile week? Ttc is very stressful for the man too maybe he’s feeling overwhelmed.
Aylenrose·
@modom16 I haven't got a fertile ovulation test yet but I'm expecting to be in fertile days in the next 2 days and hopefully ovulating in about 3-4 days. We have tried a couple times the last time being 2 days ago.
Mamachey·
Do you talk about ttc stuff and the process and like details maybe keeping that to your self would put less pressure . Why is it that he’s responding this way
boys.everywhere·
Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
I think ttc can be a lot of pressure for guys. My SO acted the same way and then we decided to take a break from ttc and I got pregnant that month 😊 now our sex life is back to normal and he wants it all the time lol.
Aylenrose·
@mamacheybb @mymisa22 yeah that's the vibe I was getting is that he was feeling the pressure. I wasn't trying to pressure him or anything and I told him going in if it happens it happens and if not that's ok to. I just backed off on the subject more though and last night we BD so we will see what happens this month. 😊 I guess I just wanted to make sure we had a decent shot.
Mamachey·
You should just stop talking about the ttc process and take mental notes of yourtimws but not mention it to him I know it’s hard but it will def make it more difficult from the looks of it
Aylenrose·
@mamacheybb I don't talk about it with him I'm just letting him come to me and putting a few days in between and he seems to be doing much better.