So me and the twins are all sick. Throwing up and Kai has the poops. I told my husband I need to go…
So me and the twins are all sick. Throwing up and Kai has the poops. I told my husband I need to go get a shower cause kai's throw up on me 4x today. His response was "no. I'm sick. I feel way worse than you do." He hasn't been pooping. He hasn't been puking all day long. I have. After biting his head off he finally said " ok, you got 15 minutes you better hurry up". I didn't even get to take a 5 minute shower before I had to get out because he was screaming "hurry up! I only have one had to hold them with". Ugh. Well I ended up telling him if he's gonna continue like this and be a part time parent of be better if I just do it myself. I told him to look for other places to go.
sherry S·
@momma2twinies Wow...time you like your in prison.... Good FOR YOU for standing up for yourself..Why does he talk to you this way? Maybe he needs therapy on how treat THE mother of his children ..You don't want to waste yrs w. A man who acts and treats you this way ...So while your all day with the children what does he spend his day doing?
Harmonie·
Sounds like u need to let him go. He doesn’t ever want to help h and that’s sad. You didn’t get pregnant by ur self yes kno
R.H.·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
That's crazy and disrespectful as hell...I'm sorry he made you feel that way. I think you did right. You don't need him if he's gonna act like that.
Jasmine Cleveland 💕·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sherrynygirl he's always telling me that I won't fond anyone better, that he treats me like a queen, that he does the best he can. Well it's all lies. He treats me like shit most of the time. As far as what does he do all day, he's in bed playing video games, he never gets out of the bed unless it's for a Dr appointment. He doesnt even want to get out for the twins birthday
Jasmine Cleveland 💕·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@diegosmommy0213 I told him that he helped make them so he needs to help take care of them. He said "well I'm going to bed. I'll help whenever I wake up" 😑
sherry S·
@momma2twinies There is so
much to life girl and your so young still.Verbal abuse is abuse too...Regardless of his disablility he should make you feel beautiful.take you places.help you with the children...his arms work long hrs to play video games shit...he can feed the children.sweep.fold laundry..he can't use his disablility to take advantage of his situation..you understand not putting him down just giving examples my intuition is telling me...it's can't be all on you.your a woman.a mom not a robot... My 1st son's father..was a piece of shit selfish..I met another man and with him 17 yrs since April..he loves my 1st like his own.&we have 2 Son's together..Good men do exist ..
Brittney Harris ·
Мама троих детей
Shit. Would of just turned up music and ignored his ass.. but I can't stand someone telling me what to do. I'll be a petty bitch. Hope you feel better !!
jenn.p.·
Wow girl he sounds like such a asshole and a lazy ass.. I though my husband was bad.. but no he helps me with the baby he changed his diapers and clothes and wakes up at night with him.. your husband needs to man up and you shouldn’t have to beg him for help he should say ok babe go take a bath I got this or even ok.. and not yell at you to hurry up wtf.. you should be able to enjoy some times to yourself in the shower.. he sounds like a big ass baby.. and yeah he is being a part time parent like wtf u are doing it alone so u should just do it alone without the extra burden of his ass around it would be once less person to worry about..
jenn.p.·
@momma2twinies, wtf oh hell no that’s why I left my first husband.. yes he worked but then he came home and no help with anything didn’t even talk to are daughter cause he would run to his video games and play all night till it was time for bed.. and on the weekends on his days off it was video games all day we didn’t even go anywhere or do anything as a family cause that’s all he wanted to do.. I got sick and tired of it.. I told him he changed for about two weeks and then again.. shit even when I was pregnant In the one who had to cut the grass cause he didn’t do crap.. and take the trash out all the time.. nope so he didn’t change I told him to leave and he didn’t he kept staying so I got tired of it and just completely feel out of love with him I ended up cheating on him and he finally left.. I’m glad I’m done with him.. your too young to deal with that and that’s always bs when they say you won’t find anyone like him ha ha exactly that’s the point we will find better then them.. that’s the whole reason the situation is even coming up because he sucks as a man.. and I hate when people use disability’s to not work or do shit.. man I got a crooked knee that hurts like hell with the years I got a crooked spine also and two disc that are messed up.. but I work even though I’m in so much pain all the time I still have to work and why because I don’t have medical insurance to get checked and get disability even at that I don’t think I can sit at home all day and do nothing.. I’m only 31 but I’ve got such a messed up body because of a accident I had in my early teens which is only hurting me more and more with the years.. men are just not men anymore they are little pussy baby’s.. I see so many men out in the street standing at the corner begging for money it makes me so sad for them that they even have a dick hanging in between there legs..
heather bowman·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Lord he would be on the streets..
Jasmine Cleveland 💕·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@glamari that's what I told hin
Jasmine Cleveland 💕·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kansas_sagesmomma he said he's looking for a nursing home to go to
Allyson Almeda·
I would have done the same. Don't let him tell you you'll never find anyone better, there's many many more fish in the sea and you can go catch yourself a winner. My son's father tried that shit with me and I wasn't having it. Left him when my son was 1 and 8 months later met and amazing man who treats me a million times better and is a better father figure to my son.
Harmonie·
@momma2twinies, I’m so sorry u need more help def.... from him since he’s the dad .. so what u gonna do now