My mom told me today that my brothers wife's sister is coming all the way from France to be here for…
My mom told me today that my brothers wife's sister is coming all the way from France to be here for there wedding reception with our family. That makes me feel even worse if my son isn't here. Like all of my moms side of the family is going to be here and my sons bastard sperm donor is being a spiteful asshole because I told him he couldn't take my son early one day because he had an appointment and started demanding he was coming to get him when he had an appointment and I was going to let him go until he started doing that and I told him that the other day that he shouldn't of acted like that! And he's being such a nasty asshole because of that and me calling cps and taking him to court. He saids I lied to the courts and cps 😆 If he doesn't bring him home early or even home that day if he ever wants him early or for an event for his family I will out right say no. My mom is so mad at him right now that she is making my step dad send off my son with him tomorrow ( I will be at work) and she's like if I see him I'm going to say something and it won't be pretty. And he's trying to put the blame on me if my son isn't here for my brothers wedding. Cause of course he is never ever wrong in his eyes. He doesn't see that his actions cause my actions. I hate him. I truly truly do.
sherry S·
Call your family court house and speak or make an appt w the judge
Jess·
@sherrynygirl, what do I say? I called my lawyer and he just said if he doesn't bring him home for the holiday to file a violation. But him being a asshole he saids I have to deal with it basically :/ which isn't fair because he's not looking out for he best interest of my child he just cares about his own selfish needs and wants. I've been willing to work with him and try to make some sort of peace and civility and he got pissed at me for trying to do that! I was going to give him extra time for letting me have my son home early I was going to let him have extra time for missing time with my son for
Mother's Day but he's being such a no good bastard that I'm just like forget that! He didn't want to try to make some sort of amends with me for our child's sake so I'm just going to be the same way back to him! A giant bitch, I won't let him have my son for anything ever outside of his court appointed time, I think not letting him be here for my brothers wedding is such a rotten no good thing to do. He's just out for a vengeance and he's pyschotic about it. It's scary!
sherry S·
@missjess ask the Judges Chambers..or write a letter as well explain the situation mention you have many family members from overseas coming if you can have your son be there and switch a day w / his crazy father ..it's not an every day event
Jess·
@sherrynygirl, I guess I could call and see. It's worth a shot. Because he was psychotic about it the other day he's flip out saying all this stuff then be like if you let me have him Thursday I'll bring him back Sunday and I told him he could and then he'd flip out again saying no I'm not bringing him back till Monday ( which Memorial Day is my holiday and I kept telling him he had to bring hi back Monday and he was refusing) and then it was crazy. I'm like is this guy on drugs?! I even asked him at one point if he was ok lol because he kept going back and forth. And then now I have NO idea what is actually happening .
Benjamin Button·
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I just wouldn't send him that weekend. 🤷♀️ if he isn't being clear and acting psycho.
Lanie Jay·
He has no obligation to change the court ordered visitation schedule. Does it stink because things come up? Yes, but he does not have to and he’s not in the wrong. You turning around and saying “if he doesn’t, I won’t ever” isn’t putting your child first either. The only thing you have recourse for is if he does not follow the court order. I wouldn’t go calling the court for something like that because they’ll tell you the same.
Did you offer him some sort of compromise or make up time? If not, I can see why he wouldn’t give up his day. If you want to coparent successfully, you’ll also need to be a successful coparent.
Jess·
@laniejay, i understand That but he's just being hastey and out for a vengeance. I tried to make peace the other day and he flipped out on me for it: I offered him plenty of make up time in exchange for him to bring him home early and he kept going psycho about it. First he'd flip out about all kinds of stuff then say if you let me take him Thursday I'll bring him back Sunday. i'm like I've told you you could take him and then he would turn about and be like NO I'm not bringing him back till Monday ( which Monday is my holiday not his and he was refusing to bring him home till then ) so it was a constant fight with him being mental. so I tried to work with him and be nice and try to make things better and he's just a giant psychotic douche :/ if he doesn't bring him home Sunday he in violation.