They say never go to sleep mad at your spouse but it seem like I'm going to bed sad. After I been…

They say never go to sleep mad at your spouse but it seem like I'm going to bed sad. After I been diagnosed with seborrheic dermatitis my self confidence has gone all the way down. My self esteem has went down along with my sex drive. Of course my hubby was very upset but understand.But at the same time he is a man so I made it a point to turn things up to being spontaneous to dressing up like I use to even on my bad days I make it a point to give him that...even on days I'm feeling great. I stepped things up in the bedroom. I asked him is he satisfied with his sex life now? His answer really made me sad n hurted very much. He said no. He wants to be able to pull my hair like he use to but can't now bc of my condition of the scalp ( n in turn made me have some nerve issues )- he want me to dress sexy everyday but I can't bc the flaking is much I dress in layers to keep from having to constantly change. I feel like I step it up to the point I'm sacrificing my comfort zone. I not sure to just stop trying all together or keep doing what I'm doing. I feel like I'm jumping thru allot of hoops which I always refused to do. I going to bed knowing my hubby is not satisfied with me basically.....God forbids my cancer come back n he have to be real patient in the bed. :(