With my daughter I used the bra but I always set her up with either her play mat gym or her bouncer with toys for me to shake and played with her. We usually made it through the fifteen minutes. I know how hard it is and the stress worrying that they will cry while your pumping and then what will you do. We made it 15 mths and I ended up throwing out a freezer full of excess breastmilk. You can do this!

There are bras that will help you with that