Is it right for me to feel a curtain kind of way when my hubby decides to go to his ex wife extended family BBQ? I'm so…

Nope, I would not be okay with that!

Does he have kids with her? Did they go? Otherwise that's crazy as hell. You should have went. I would have been right there!

They have kids together 3 but not sure what was the motive why he decided to go but I'm giving his reason the benefits of a doubt. There is a silence between us I just can shake it fit some reason don't want to be insecure( not trying to be anyways) but I just never known anyone to do that. I can't shake it I didn't bring it up or anything

They have kids together 3 but not sure what was the motive why he decided to go but I'm giving his reason the benefits of a doubt. There is a silence between us I just can shake it for some reason don't want to be insecure( not trying to be anyways) but I just never known anyone to do that. I can't shake it. I didn't bring it up or anything

Well you should bring it up. They are over. Co parenting does not envolve socializing with her family. That's just insane. Why didn't you go with him??

Why didn’t you go? I think it’s inappropriate that he went, and even worse you guys didn’t go together to show you are a strong unit. I would have never let him go, I would have pitched a huge fit. Needless to say, he has no reason to be going to anything to do with the ex, unless it directly involves the kids. And even then, you should be with him.

I Would Be Pissed As Well Like Come On Dude 💁🏽‍♀️🙄 Are You Serious ? If It's Not About The Kids It's No Reason He Should Be Around An Ex's Family Function Unless It's Birthday Parties / And Holidays Etc . And I Agree With Them He Should've Brought You Or Asked You If You Wanted To Go But You Have To Look From His Point Of View Maybe He Did'nt Want To Feel Like He Was Disrespecting Neither Of You By Bringing Each Other Around Knowing Yall Don't Like Each Other Or Causing An Issue Which If My Fiancé Brought Me To An Ex's Function , Why Does It Matter If I Come Or Not ? Your His Woman And They Have To Respect That Period Whether They Like It Or Not It's Not About The Ex's Wants Or Her Parents It's Really About His Children's And Your Happiness First Before Anything Yall Are'nt Together And If They Had An Issue With That Then It Just Shows How Immature They Can Be When It Comes To Certain Situations Like That

To me nothing would show a level of relationship strength like trusting him to go.

Totally understandable. I wouldn't have been crazy about that, either.

I can see why you might be upset about it. She may be a part of his past, but maybe he had a great relationship with some of her family. How long were they together?

I might have preferred that we go together, though that may have also been awkward because I wouldn't know anyone other that him and his ex.

I mean, you're entitled to feel however you feel about it. You know your relationship better than we do.

@leowifey they been married for 13 years and have three kids. I guess he sensed me being upset he shampooed the living and cooked me breakfast and acting flirty smh. I guess I will let it go but WILL bring it up when it's appropriate believe that.....

Sorry for your situation but I died at “curtain kind of way” 😂😂😂

I think that if they really wanted to see him, they would respect his and your relationship enough to invite you.

@let_there_be_life I seriously doubt that....they are not like you n me.they are like her very ratchet and messy when it come to people

@nicolee____, 😂😂😂

@nicolee____ lol yeah that's how we say having negative feelings about something lol