Dh has said since the baby hes feelin more and more distant from me... like what?!? Its got me…

Maybe he's not used to sharing your attention? Sit his butt down and have a long talk.

@smayfie i need to have a long talk with him cuz somethin isnt connecting sexually... idk hes like not into it. I know he not cheating cuz thats not him. I just dont know. And its literally tearin me up inside

I'm sorry hun. I hope you can work through it.

@smayfie thanks girly... but our baby isnt our only kid. This makes baby number 4 so hes never had my full undivided attention lol

Oh snap. Well hell then. I'm sure men go through plenty of emotional changes too after baby is here. I know my guy was a damn mess after Tobias. We were lucky to have a counselor provided by the hospital.

Randomly??? That sucks.. did you all sit down and talk about it f2f??

@adriannastewart yeah it seemed random to me but hes been so stressed we just moved to a new house and hes been workin and ive been takin care of the kids. At the end of the day hes so tired he passes out and im exhausted from carin for the kids all day so we havent been intimate too much lately.

@cmjohnson3047, plan a date night soon. Some one on one time may really help!

@masseymomma16 ive already asked and he snapped at me saying we don't got money to be going out

@cmjohnson3047 my hubby gets like that sometimes. We just ended up planning a stay in date. Kids stayed with family to save us some money. The first date we just had a nap. Lol. The second one was a tv movie PVR'ed. Knowing we have one coming up often helps reduce stress and we then commit to going to bed early or doing something extra during the week to reduce the load, that way we can focus on each other

@cmjohnson3047, maybe put the kids to sleep early one night. & have some alone time.. I wouldn’t take it personal, especially if you all have a lot going on right now. (Him working a lot and you caring for the kids on top of just moving)

Don't let it tear you up. It sounds like the typical up and downs of a relationship. You guys will make it through this. You guys are going through a lot together right now.