It’s crazy how a mother will always have more responsibility than the father. Unless you got at home…

Honestly, in my opinion, I think we as moms put more on us than we should. On my other app I see sooo many moms saying they hate that their SO/BD don't do anything with the kids and yet they complain that they don't trust them to watch their own kids for the day so of course the dad's aren't gonna step up when we as mom's give them so much resistance. My husband fights me to relax more and take a break so he can take on that responsibility. It's definitely a blessing to have a man, a dad who will be completely involved. In my experience my expectations are higher than they should be so I feel Hubby doesn't do enough when he actually does equal as this is a partnership not a competition

It’s true. It’s always us moms that have to do everything for our little ones. It does make me mad cuz when something happens to our kids they always run to us. Hardly ever their dad. Its always going to be like this no matter what we do. And Mother’s Day is around the corner. Let’s see if the fathers will watch the kiddos and let me feel how we feel like when we take care of our children.

@reddroses14, @celia8991, every time I ask my man to do something right after he’s done with his first task he bitches and complains. We both work full time. I feel like we should both have equal duties. Everything shouldn’t just fall on me.

@mumstasin, yea we all should have equal duties with our husbands. But apparently no!! And us moms are doing a lot for our kids and the husbands don’t see that. I know what you go thru cuz my husband is the same way. It’s so annoying!!! This is why I don’t want another child right now

@celia8991, I will not be having anymore children. I’m getting o birth control. I need to focus on me as well, and it’s been hard for me to realize that.

@mumstasin, my boyfriend does the same thing.. every now and then he will do what I ask but other then that I’m “ annoying “ since I live with my mom, and he lives with his, he comes over to “ help “ me every day. Him helping would be taking on what I do every day, so I can rest. I don’t get any sleep. He’s had the audacity to ask me what do I do that makes me so tired all the time. He does feed his son, he changes some diapers. He hasn’t shown me I can leave him alone with him. But we do have more of the responsibility then men do. Because our kids depend on us more then the man in their lives.

@mumstasin, but if you need to talk I’m here 😊

@mumstasin, yea same here

I think my man is a freak of nature lol . He’s the one when we are out that is willing to go take the baby into the bathroom and change his dirty diapers and on the weekends when he’s not on call , he takes the baby in the morning so I can sleep in a little . He loves being a dad. That being said, I’m a stay at home mom and do most of the parenting during the week while he’s at work, but he works long hours so I don’t have to work. It’s kind of a one hand washes the other thing .

My man can be an ass or video game whore BUT when it comes to his kids he always stops what he’s doing and gets his girls. I grew up in a family where the men don’t really take care of their kids or if they do they complain about stuff. With him I cut that shit real quick because our girls have two parents not just one. He came from no background of child care and now he’s an expert lol He is a kid at heart so our oldest loves her daddy because he runs around and plays with her and when she’s busy he takes our younger one and talks and cuddles with her. He looks all big and tough when we are out or when he’s with friends but the biggest sweetheart with his girls. When he’s off at his construction job, yes it gets difficult to handle 2 under 2 alone but once I hear the key turn in that lock we all get excited because our goofy man is home.