Have any of you struggled with having a different parenting style in mind compared to your partner?…

Yes I agree it’s very frustrating

Yes. We've got into so many fights bc of it.

It sucks. But hopefully when the time comes then it will go my way because I believe his ideas are silly. He says that teens shouldn't wash their own laundry. It's the parents job?! No they can learn to wash it from 12 years old. I want her to learn how to be tidy and it's a great way to show them to be independent when she's older she won't leave them around or let them go stinky. Same if she shows interest she can help in the kitchen or she can sit and talk while I prep a snack or meal.... and he says it's abuse to make them do their own laundry? Ppppffffffff hahah like from 2 years old we will teach her to clean up after she's done playing with them. But just going to focus on Now.

Yes,same here but I tend to act in agreement with whatever hubby does or say in front of our child and later express my disatisfaction to him away from our child. It can be frustrating to act patient and calm at such times but it has been working for us as a couple and a family in raising our child properly though.

Oh yes. My hubby is a big softie when it comes to bed time. If our 2 year old makes a fuss, he's up to her room in a flash. Drives me nuts cuz when he's at work and she's fighting her nap, she wants me to come up and I won't so she fusses worse. Lol. Mean mommy 😅

@megand15 lol yeah I'm probably making that mistake. We bed share and she can only fall asleep with me there. He tries to put her to sleep and she cries and cries... Going to try to fix that once our visitor leaves her room hah 😅

@courtneyxa mine slept with us until she was 20 months old 😊

Oh I absolutely love bed sharing but she moves sometimes and he wakes up and can't sleep again. And well his snoring makes her move because it gets so loud but we've found solutions I go to bed before him and we keep the fan on because it keeps the air circulated and cool I joke saying I want her to bed share until 1 years age lol but I really gotta teach her how to fall asleep on her own. Because what about the baby sitter if she wakes up and becomes fussy? Lol crying a lot is bad for babies (I heard they can't process so much stress and the feeling of abandonment comes up?) But like I said I love bed sharing. She's so sweet 😍 and then I would have to convince him to get rid of the bed frame to have a floor bed when she's crawling/walking and climbing

Yeah I stayed and he never met her

Yes especially where time is concern . I’m a little particular about everything being on time so that the day would end on time and she would at least be in bed in time coz she goes to school and late nights equals to fussy mornings . I know sometimes we can’t control time especially with a fussy toddler. But at least we as adults should do things on time so even if she fusses for meals the delay won’t be too much . But my husband fees like I’m always pushing him and he can’t relax and enjoy his day off . If that’s the case then enjoy it alone . Don’t make plans with us and then delay us coz you just can’t get your ass off the sofa . What about me ? I’m a SAHM and I never relax . Everything is back to back . Even when she is in school all I can think off of I want to finish off all my work before she gets home . But as a reward I get to nap with her peacefully in the afternoon coz all my work is done .