@meggcragle, I agree with you 100%.. and with you being the one to take care of him ALL the time it shouldn’t be thrown in your face that you’re a bad person!

@mommy_x3, thank you at least someone can see my point of view if you in a relationship where there is already a child then you have the right to put your foot down with that child. Now I’d understand if we just started dating and I came into his life for him to act the way he does or if Dashawn and I didn’t live together but we have lived together since day 1 ! I have been in his life since day 1! If I had a child coming into this relationship and he acted the way he does to me to Dashawn I’d expect Dashawn to be on top of his ass showing him who is boss but nope I’m the bad guy and I’m disrespecting him. Get the hell out of here seriously. I’m the one who is gonna get called when he talking a teacher to fuxk off so I’m suppose to go into the school like nah that’s okay he run things he’ll no

Girl you have every right to be upset cause you do EVERYTHING and yet you still put up with a lot from deshawn as well!! In my opinion he needs to let his son know that he needs to respect you, my step daughter knows good and well she has to listen to me I’ve been in her life since she was 2 she’s now 8 so of course there’s not going to be no disrespect especially if I basically raised you 🤷🏻‍♀️

@kaliyahsmommy579, he don’t listen to anyone his father gotta yell at him or tell him a hundred times bc his mother babies him and lets him walk all over her. And that’s not happening at my house I put this roof over our head and I’m not about to be walked all over from a child that in told I’m his step mother he does like me him and I do more with each other than him and his father do that’s not the case he don’t have to like me when he older or whatever but he ain’t gonna disrespect me and neither will his father. We have to raise him and now my child in this world and it’s not like how I was brought up. Kids think they can treat anyone anyway and he starts kindergarten this year and I’m not about to have him going to school telling adults what he gonna do. Y’all raise your kids how you want and I will raise mine how we like. His mother even gave me permission to be that role model in his life and guidance and we have talked about how he acts but I knew no roles were gonna change in her end that is why it’s so hard

I watch his son while he at work or goes plays basketball so yes I’m gonna say something to him bc he come to my house I’m not about to be disrespected by a 4 year old no way in hell am I gonna let my son disrespect anyone. I am told I am his step mother that I need to put my foot down okay put my foot down where bc when I do it gets turned around on me. I’m the one who has to deal with a cranky 4 year old at 630 in the morning and a 1 month old baby to drag out the house to take the 4 year old to school. His mother has a boyfriend that lives there but yet we have to drop everything to cater to her schedule or we don’t see him. The night I came home from the hospital from having our son we had to get him bc she had plans and bow down to her but it’s ridiculous there needs to be rules and schedules for him the same at both places or he’s gonna grow up to be disrespecting everyone thinking he makes the rules every where. Not in my house I’m not letting that happen if I had a child before getting with my man he has all the rights to straighten my child out if needs to be bc I let him in our lives and I’m not gonna have my man feeling like he disrespected from my child or feel like he’s not apart of my family.