Feel like such a twat!! How have people managed to maintain a normal friendship with their ex/childs…

What's the issue hun? You both hate each other or you still have feelings? What are you finding hard 😊xx

I love him, but not the way I used to, and he still loves me, and he tried it on with me on Monday and it had been a while so I just went with it 🙈 I just need to know it gets easier 😂 xx

🙊 well atleast your not enemies which is definitely better, but your both giving each other mixed signals, are you sure you don't want to be with him? The problem is your never going to be able to move on completely because your always going to have to see him, speak to him and have him involved in your life but you can definitely have your own life and not be together xx

I’m sure, we broke up when I was 3 months pregnant, I’ve been clear with him that I don’t want to be with him 🤷🏼‍♀️ I hope so it just doesn’t feel like I can move on without hurting him xx

I would just explain to him that it's over and you purely had sex because it was the heat of the moment, he will feel hurt but if you don't want to be with him then you can't not move on. You have a baby together and that should be your main focus, it's so easy for arguements to start and problems to develop like one of you getting a new partner but just try and be open minded if you or him do move on involve them in let them meet the new person and always keep each other in mind but you don't have to be together 😊 if that makes sense?! Ps. My partner had a daughter from a previous relationship so it can work just can be hard!!xx

Yeah I understand, thank you! 💙 I’ve spoken to him and he does seem to get it now, just wonder how long for 😏 xx

Give it time hun you've only just had your baby he's still tiny and it will take some getting use to 😊 xx