So I bought large hipster underwear from Walmart right? I took them home and opened the box up so…
So I bought large hipster underwear from Walmart right? I took them home and opened the box up so that I could wash them and the things were huge. Bigger than what I'd normally buy huge. So I'm awestruck by these things and I was telling my mom I had to return them for this reason. She took the pair from my hand and held it to me to size it up for me and they're actually a perfect fit. Having a baby widened my hips so much.. Same thing happened while buying shorts the other day. No one said I'd go up multiple sizes like that. I'm so insecure about everything.. My clothes are way bigger now and my vagina is wrecked. I'm selfishly so saddened by all of this... This is my 5th week postpartum and I've given up hope that my vagina will ever go back. Pretty from the outside though 😒 fml. I don't feel like dealing with hate comments so lets not right now haha
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
5w is still soooooo soon to even be close to fully healed. Can't say much for hips, it happens. Your vagina is perfect the way it is. Don't let a man or woman make you feel differently about it because it just did the job of its LIFE and is still functioning properly for you. Feel better soon.
Amber·
5 weeks is so soon to be stressing over your vagina. If you’re worried about tightness do squats. It helps tighten the pelvic floor muscles and is good for the booty. If it’s the appearance give it more time to heal. Enjoy your baby and try not to stress while you’re still healing.
Addee Alverson·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam the hips isn't bad, just new. My body filled out fine.. I'm just worried it'll stay like this and hell be unsatisfied and never want to touch me again
Deleted·
Your body is still recovering, your bones and joints are still getting back in place. I felt like this with my first baby to, dont feel sad about your body dear. Walking does wonders 30 min a day. And your vagina will go back the same dont stress about that do kegels everyday trust me it works 👌
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
The unfortunate truth is: if he finds the mother of his child unattractive he is NOT THE ONE 👋👋
But we are always way harder on ourselves than other people are on us.
Addee Alverson·
Мама сына-младенца
@kambam its not that I'm unattractive, I lucked out, I just don't feel like I pleasure him much anymore. He said its fine and he feels bad about taking forever and all the extra effort he puts in because he knows it makes me feel like this but I can't seem to not beat myself up even though my body did an amazing thing.
Mommynes·
Perhaps he should have waited the full 6 weeks then. Like others have said, your body is healing. Let it heal.
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
You're both still adjusting honestly. Just because he didn't physically have a baby, he may be having a hard time getting back into things. Ahem 😣 he may be worrying about how you feel or the baby. I always say communication is key. Best to be open and honest so you can fix problems together.