I feel bad this is going to be my 4th child not counting my miscarriages and my fiance 1st i am…
I feel bad this is going to be my 4th child not counting my miscarriages and my fiance 1st i am planning on tying my tubes or cutting them he asked if i would have another baby later on like a few years from now he wants kids of his own at least two but i feel done this will be my 4th csection dr normally would only allow 3 but i didn't tie my tubes i want to give him more kids at least another but i feel physically exhausted and it took us a lot of losses to finally have our baby girl idk what to do 😞
Heather·
You guys really need to talk about everything through and through and go over all your feelings and what it would take to raise another
Des·
@hcbooko yes i agree I didn't talk to him before i made my decision i just told him that's what i wanted but i think we have to talk about it now before our daughter comes
Heather·
And have you looked into everything that comes with having a tubal. My dr didn’t talk to me about any of it and now I’m dealing with ptls and it sucks
Des·
@hcbooko no i haven't my dr just told me that she's considering it because of my miscarriages last year she thinks my body is tired and can't keep a pregnancy but i haven't looked into it she told me there would be no complications
Heather·
You might just google search some of the downsides to getting a tubal because like I said I wasn’t aware and now I’m having periods for 3 weeks and only off 1 week and they are the most painful thing I’ve had to deal with and I have super heavy bleeding. I know everyone is different so it doesn’t mean you will have issues but at least ideas of what could happen might help.