He's in jail It's been almost 2 years since I've received any sort of communication with my son, that I gave up for adoptions parents. Yesterday was my birthday and guess what I woke up to this morning? An email from his parents. I was so excited until I opened the email to find out that they are writing to let me know he's been sentenced to a juvenile detention center. Why you may ask? Armed robbery. Clearly they are doing a stellar job raising my kid ????
So my son is 5 years old and he's very behind on knowing his ABC's and numbers and also writing his name. I don't know what to do because he starts kinder next month.
Sometimes I have no patience for my dog. He's a puppy and he constantly wants me to hold him or pick him up and he constantly cries. My patience while pregnant is literally at 0 and I feel bad because he's just a baby but I can't help it his crying irritates me 😭
In an hour and a half I will officially have a 16 year old! My first true love, my first born❤ he's definitely my white hairs lol but I wouldn't trade him for the world happy birthday to my son😍😍😍❤❤❤😙😙😙
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Sarah ·
Мама двоих (младенец)
That is amazing news! I had an IEP all through school, 3rd grade on. Once i got mine i did so much better in school as well. Don’t stop being his voice! Know that IEP in an out. We got caught teachers not doing what was on my IEP one time in high school. I was getting frustrated because i was reading the book assigned to our class to read. Well it was Shakespeare’s and i hard time reading a regular English book. So you can see how Shakespeare’s would be tough. Well they gave me a different version that would explain things more and kind take out a lot of the old English. Anyways it was different than the original book. Well i kept failing every test on this damm book. Found out they were quizzing me on the original book..... we fought and the teacher refused to retest. She was fired on the spot. No questions asked. She was also a tenured teacher.
Let your son be apart of the meeting too. Make sure he knows or knows as much as he can about it. I wish i knew mine better. Your going a great job Momma!
Jay·
Мама сына (4 года)
That's so awesome!! My 4 year old son has Autism, so I can definitely relate. There is so much to be proud of and so much to look forward to. Wishing you guys all the best!
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@mommajules thank you 🙂
Mommynes·
You’re stronger than I am!
Juliana Ochoa·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
That’s awesome❤️ What a cutie!!
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@scasacca thank you
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@mommynes thank you. IEPs are very emotional. I held it in and let the tears roll once I got out of the meeting.
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@singlemommaof3 thank you. Mama bear came out a couple times this year. I'm a very shy person but not when it comes to my kids. I love seeing his improvement its the best thing. 🙂
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@momof2gs here is also 3 hours. He's only going the be taken out of class 3 days a week for 30 minutes For speech. Awww that's great they include her. I live in front of the school the kindergarten playground is right infront of my house so I'm going to be spying on him lol
Sara Casacca·
Мама троих детей
That’s so amazing!
Mommynes·
Yass!! Congratulations to you and little man on his growth! I love that! I cry every year during my daughters IEP meetings and parent conferences 😒
Nancy·
My son is autistic. Those IEP meetings can be frustrating at times. My son is in Kindergarten. He is in special ed but the curriculum is general ed. It is challenging but he’s improved so much!
Congratulations to your son. Keep on fighting for him. My sons school and the district already know me because I won’t stay quiet when things don’t go like they should.
Veronica ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
@letty1311, I have that same fear mama. My Gia is in a regular kinder class & half the day in an intensive needs special ed class. (Kinder here is only 3 hrs a day). She’s making a lot of progress but still has a ways to go. So far her classmates love her & include her in everything & it melts my heart bc she has communication & socialization issues that could make her seem “weird” to them.
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@momof2gs thank you. Yes we still have many challeges and many more speech therapy sessions . He will also receive help in gerenal ed. My only worries is other kids not including him or making fun of him.
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@nicole844 thank you
Veronica ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
I’m also an autism mama so I know the rollercoaster of emotions on a daily basis let alone during an iep. It’s so hard to hear anything less that positive about your child. Just know, he has challenges not limitations!! I’m so happy he’s had such amazing progress & I pray it continues for you both ❤️
Shannae3 ·
Мама четверых детей
Happy it paid off
Nicole·
Мама четверых детей
That's so awesome!
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
@shannae3 thank you. Its been a rollercoaster ride for sure, and many speech therapy sessions.
Shannae3 ·
Мама четверых детей
That’s so awesome 👏🏽. I’m so happy for your son. Not every mom speaks up for their kids.
Letty·
Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)
Thank you 😊
Veronica ·
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)
That’s so awesome!! Congrats to you both!!