I am pregnant and my future child father insist on a abortion. One minute he want it and next minute he don’t want it.…

It’s really your choice.. don’t do nothing you want to do.. even though I think you should think of your child as a blessing😍😍

Thank you for the advice. It’s just hard when you are pregnant for the first time and don’t have the support of the father. To think about having to be in the delivery room by myself and doctors appointments. I just bought a house and the stress of that and this new life I’m carrying is a lot.

@dglasgow, you are a strong woman and you will make it through. I would personally keep it, and if your bd doesn’t want to be involved - so be it. His loss. He is obviously acting worse than a dog at this point. He will learn the hard way this is no way to treat someone. He cannot tell you what to do.

I was a single mom for 6 years and then met an incredible man who accepted my child as his own and we are now having our second. You deserve so much better!

@lulu85_18, that gives me hope that having this kid is not the end.

I kind of went through something similar and he’s started to “catch up to me”. it’s your choice and believe me you won’t be alone forever. It’s my first to and I like to think of this as growth.

I had my son on my own with family support. His dad insisted on an abortion too. I had the mindset that I’d raise my son on my own. However, I’d still make him financially responsible. They knowingly created a baby and should give the baby financial support, at the very least.

I say abort the baby's father

@dglasgow either way fuck him you dont need that you will find a real man who will love u both. On another note do you trust her she could be petty and be lieing to make u jealous cuz shes hurt your pregnant to.

@dglasgow i kno its hard:/ hun but you will find strength for your baby you got this and if you feel you cant do it its your choice and body dont let him influence u.

@dglasgow... That's your baby whether he's there or not.. And sadly enough, he probably won't be.. So you follow your heart and just know that the Lord has you.. Whatever you do, just be able to live with it. Good luck!

what’s an ED?? & it’s ultimately your choice.. don’t let him pressure you into making any decisions when it comes to your baby. don’t let his absence be the reason why you choose to abort. There are plenty of women who have been threw it all alone, so you won’t be the first nor the last. Just do what makes you happy girl and not him!

I went through this with my first. He didn't beg me to abort but he didn't care if I did and didn't claim the baby to other ppl. I had him. He's two years old now. He now tells ppl that he loves and wants to see his son but doesn't reach out lol. It's stressful. Trust me I know. & Extremely hurtful to feel like the other woman. The one thats not wanted. But I say have your baby and do your thing. Whether he comes around or not is on him.

Honestly, I would leave! I would not abort my baby just because he wants me to. I also wouldn’t stay with a man who goes back and forth between wanting me to abort and keep the child, he will most likely be in and out that baby’s life! Cut your loses now, let him go back to his ex (since he wants her to keep her baby) pssh ✌🏾

@dglasgow I would take your baby dad out of the equation - do you want to raise this baby? Are you financially able to raise this baby with 0 support from him? On the flip side, are you able to accept that this douchebag and his girlfriend will be a part of the babies life and would get visitation if they requested it?

I know lots of people think "it's my baby, I can do what I want" but the reality is a lot harder and more painful. Especially if the fathers girlfriend ends up being interested in your baby. Or if you can't afford things and he doesn't pay child support.

If a man asks me to get an abortion, I would simply be aborting him out of my life. I don't need a man around to raise my child. He clearly is not interested in your baby at all. He wants nothing to do with it. You have 2 options, stop messing with the fool and just focus on you and your baby. Or, when the baby is born, order a paternity test and nab that idiot with child support.

If you want to keep the baby, keep the baby and raise him or her on your own! You’ll get the help you need as a singe mom + he is financially responsible for HIS baby.

How the hell is this a real question? You’re not sure if you should abort because your SO keeps changing his mind. WHAT THE FUCK AM I READING?! I swear sometimes I feel like slamming my head against a fkn wall when I read stupid shit. This is a life a human life. Just because you had unprotected sex with a male doesn’t mean he makes the decision with the outcome. You make the decision whether to keep this baby since you’re going to be the one taking care of it.