My man gets used by people for his money and he keeps defending them and saying no but one day he…

This is the same with mine but it’s his family who does this ... when he has money they’re all up on being so nice and actually call to check up on him .. but oh when we’re broke with not even a dime for us to eat we don’t hear from them at all , not even a hey and they treat him like he ain’t shit and when he owes them money from borrowing so we can eat they’re always calling . But when it’s reversed we get told “yea I’ll pay you when I can just wait”!and when we say that they get all pissy like they need money now ..... I’ve told him that I’ve been noticing that and he’s like not even... I’m just waiting for him to realize it and I prohibited him from lending them money or him asking for money we’ll figure it out . Can’t wait to prove a point

@blueezy23, girl I hear you on that my man is to nice but I told him no more and he actually listened once

@arthuranna26, he listened to me too .. he said his dad offered to give him 100$ for his birthday a few days ago and he’s like I have to pay it back in 2 weeks tho ... I was like don’t even if it was birthday money it’s a gift not a pay back 🙄

@blueezy23, girl I k ow what you mean

@arthuranna26, I’m just waiting for him to finish paying off his dad n stepdad and we’re done with asking for money because it’s a nightmare .... and since he’s back working making good money his mom calls him every single day . But when he was laid off getting 500 every 2 weeks being left with only 20 She was nowhere to be found 🙄

@blueezy23, it’s a sick sick world this guy he’s friends with asks him for money all the time and says he will give him a ride to work but always leaves him behind and than gambles his money away and comes and asks for more I told my man enough is enough no more ✌🏻

@arthuranna26, oh hell no how does he not see that

@blueezy23, that’s what I said it’s so stupid and the guy works more than my man and my man get child support taken out he doesn’t