Just a little venting here. Gonna be a super long post.

So my little brother (16) lives with my boyfriend and I since my mom passed away last year. & ive been super easy on him since she's passed because i feel bad that he lost the only real parent we have and don't get me wrong im hurting worse than him still. Our mom was never a mom to me (at a very young age i was taking care of my bro and she never cared what i did I moved out on my own at 16) but she was my very best friend. But anyway i never ask him or my boyfriend to do anything. All I ask of my bro is to keep his room clean and his homework done. So today i got home and my super nice WHITE bathroom hand towel had lipstick and foundation all over it (he wears makeup) so much makeup that when i picked the towel up they're was foundation on my sink. So i was super pissed. Then i went and looked in his bedroom which i haven't in about a week. It was fucking gross as hell. Cans everywhere, MOLDY PLATES and clothes everywhere. I told him to get his ass back there and clean everything and he tells me okay and starts crying and tells me he's sorry and i feel so bad but we go through this way to much. & idk what to do anymore.