@sonya0240. That's Men For Ya!! Monsters All The Time, Lol!! :P.

@zackemilymcguire, I am exactly like you! It hurts so much! But I’m not one to keep things bottle up from my husband. I tell him everything that’s in my mind. I’m really bad at not saying something. Lol. Idk maybe I’ll talk to him again. Right now I’ve been giving him the silent treatment. He doesn’t seem to care tho

I hate when he uses Porn or anything like that. To me it feels like Cheating. I mean it is sad, because he looks at Porn. I don't look at Porn. So why should he look at Porn. It just makes me feel like total shit, and I feel like he is technically cheating on me and it just sucks. I am not a talkative person about it, so I just barry it deep deep down inside my brain. I told him once, but that didn't matter. So, I just suffer with it, lol.

I hate it. I know that it is normal and natural, but I HATE it. It makes me feel NOT good enough for My Husband. The worst part is that he sneaks around to do it. Instead of sneaking around COME have sec with ME Your Wife!!! It just makes me feel depressed and I feel not wanted or liked in a sexual way. It hurts me a lot. I told My Husband that it hurts me, but I guess he doesn't care. Men Will Be Men!

You should have a talk and hopefully solve the problem 🙏

I would be pissed 👿 and ask why? But thank God we are always intimate everyone has their days but a whole month's that's too much

@sonya0240, I would be really upset with him because to me it sounds like he’s making excuses

@jaquelinerachelle, I’m pretty bad about crying too cuz then we end up arguing about us not being together. I don’t want that. I just want that to stop. @angelreaper171, I feel like it already has. We’ve talked and argued about this a lot. I feel like wine talking isn’t doing anything. Except making me crazy and jealous. & feel like I’m not good enough.

@sonya0240, you guys should talk and you tell him how you feel and try as much as you can to make time to be intimate because it will get to the point where it will start affecting your relationship

@sonya0240 have you actually set him down and had real talk with him? I'm awful at talking to other people about the things that bother me I always cry. But that seems to be the only time he understands I'm serious. When I finally break down and cry. Cant help it just bad at interacting with other people.. lol.. but honestly both of us masturbate as well. I have no problem with it but you and I are in two different predicaments now. I still think you should just have a true heart to heart conversation with Him about it

They have to do it or else when you do have sex they only last like two min.

@jaquelinerachelle, it’s kinda been an ongoing battle between us. He knows how I hate him doing that especially when there’s no intimacy between. I just don’t know what to do at this point. I get it too.. most guys are hard working and tired but some women are the same way and don’t do that. I wait for him. I wish they understood what it does to us when we don’t 100% agree with it. Or even respect feelings when they know how they are felt. Idk what else to do.

My boyfriend and I were like that but he said it was because he was too tired for sex. He worked every week day and worked overtime almost every day. So j get it but it did hurt. That I would try and then he would go shower and do it. I felt like he didnt find me attractive. And until I talked to him about it and told him how it felt that he did that, he didnt know it upset me. He didnt know how I would cry when he showered and did that because I felt so unattractive. Now its once a week or at least once every week and a half.

@angelreaper171, not on my end. He says he just is never in the mood when we have the chance. Or he will say there’s never time for us to be

Is there a reason you’re not intimate?