Question My husband went to a wedding where 3 or 4 women he hooked up were part of the wedding…
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My husband went to a wedding where 3 or 4 women he hooked up were part of the wedding party. I stayed home due to being 8 months pregnant and the last thing I wanted was to sit there in a dress for hours dealing with my in laws and drunk people.
Anyway,
He told me about the girls he hooked up with, wasnt 10 years ago like he said, it was 6. I found one of the girls on fb and as a hormonal weirdo went through all her old photos and found a bunch of them, and a few comments of him flirting with another girl who was part of the wedding party.
He wouldnt cheat, but I sat home and cried because I couldn't/cant deal with it. I feel so gross and fat and unattractive that I just feel like he was being his normal self of a social butterfly and was too nice to these women.
What Im trying to get at is, how you other wives feel if your husband went to a wedding were his exs were and he was drinking (even though he said he wouldnt) would you be upset? Do I have a reason to be upset?
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Personally, I’m a super jealous person, and I have issues with my husbands ex’s. I know he wouldn’t do anything (or I would hope not anyway) but I hate them with a passion that could burn down New York City. I understand where your coming from. It’s okay though, you’re the one he married and it’s over with now and there’s no going back, today is a new day. Try to keep calm.
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Ha! I'd be pissed too
Steph_anie·
@momosthreeprincesses1 I wasnt really pissed. Just emotionally drained and upset he was there.
Nancy·
6 years is quite awhile, but being 8 months pregnant id probably not be very happy myself. Going through the old posts and comments could piss anyone off lol. I think since he was with family there should be nothing to worry about, especially since he’s a social butterfly. He was probably the life of the party and didn’t have any private moments with those chicks.
Steph_anie·
@whoswhoo he was mostly around his guy friends hes known his entire life. Its just the women i dont trust, bc you know how women are.
Nancy·
I know, but ultimately if you trust him and another woman behaves inappropriately, then he would turn them away.
Steph_anie·
@whoswhoo hes proven to ignore them, just in person hes not really the "meaniest" hes too polite and ive seen it first hand.
Nancy·
Well surely it’s all over with now. Hopefully he is super sweet to you today as you had a rough night!
Steph_anie·
@whoswhoo it is lol, hes been super sweet and understanding as I sobbed and cried about my insecurities lol
Nancy·
@steph_anie, pregnancy is crazy lol
Cams ·
My fat ass would have been there. In a tent and all.
Shelley Chavez·
Мама дочки-младенца
He wouldn’t go 😂
Shelley Chavez·
Мама дочки-младенца
But not because i wouldn’t let him, but he would have that much respect for me to not make me feel anyway while being pregnant
Steph_anie·
@shelleychavez he was apart of the wedding party. He had to go, regardless of my feelings
Sharain·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (38 нед.)
I wouldn’t be bothered. However, if the flirting was recent then I’d be pissed !
Personally, I would have gone with him. We would have just left early if I got too uncomfortable. 🤷🏾♀️
Natalie Buelvas ·
I would've definitely felt left out and sad :(
LBoriMart·
Мама дочки-младенца
I would have been there. I went to a wedding 9months pregnant had the baby 6 days later
Steph_anie·
@lynette24 didnt feel like going. I was having issues with my in laws and BIL and being as i was really moody so i just wanted to be alone