My friend tripping. Shes going to let her daughter get highlights when she turns 10. 😐 idk cant…

And she said shes letting her because all her friends are doing it and she doesn't want her to feel left out. Smh what kind of excuse is that? 😐 if she keeps tryna prove her point to me ima keep telling her how I feel about it lol dont make no sense.

Now shes saying shes doing it because she doesn't want her daughter to get picked on and for the other kids to think they are poor because her mom supposedly doesn't do anything for her??? What?? I can never talk no sense into her lol

@d0iinjusfiin3, lmao omg no back bone 🤦🏻‍♀️ some early teens are gunna be drinking and smoking is she gunna let her do that too ?

My daughter is 10 and sometimes she gets a peek a boo highlight. 🤷‍♀️ I see no problem, however her (Your friend) reasoning could cause a big problem. 🤦‍♀️

@trailer_trash_queen @taylorsmommy1017 @mom2bei I told her to let her be a kid. And she said she rather her get it professionally done than her go behind her back and do it. I asked her where is 9 almost 10 yr old gonna go to get it done and how by herself?? And she said while shes at work...what?? 😂 I asked how is she gonna get there? Lol oh my gosh. I cant help but laugh sometimes of the things she says. I talked her into getting her to some clip ins and to wait until shes older. I told her she was giving in too quick and that by the time she will hit middle school shes gonna be running all over her. She tried to throw my son in by saying I dont let him wear Walmart shoes and all this but this is how I've always dressed my son since he was small I didnt barely start doing it to make his friends happy to for them to think "we aren't poor". Smh

@taylorsmommy1017 girl tell me about it. Sometimes I dont know why she bothers telling me stuff sometimes because she knows I will tell her how I feel and I'm sure it makes her mad sometimes. But that excuse to why she wanted to dye it was out of there. Shes a young mom though. Shes 25 and her daughter is almost 10 and she has 2 other younger daughters. She said wait until my daughter is her age. And I told her believe me I wont be doing anything to change my kids appearance and try and make my kids fit in to make other kids happy.

@shamelessadi yea thats what I told her. I told her don't do it and she will see later on that she did her a favor while them other kids have really damaged hair in middle school. Its bad enough her daughter is already worried about her appearance at that age. She already thinks shes fat and all this but girl she is skinny lol and tall. Shes a pretty girl. I told her it's bad enough she was letting her get her nails done already shes 9!!! Why rush things.

@taylorsmommy1017 yup and thats how it should be!! I'm so glad I'll be having only 1 daughter haha. This is why I wanted all boys lol but its ok I'm happy about having my first daughter. My sister has 4 girls. The oldest is 15 and she just gets her eyebrows done. My sister will never give in to letting her do something like getting highlights even at 15. And my nieces know it lol

@taylorsmommy1017 lol yuppppp. We gotta be strong and not give in lol but boys aren't easy I can tell you that. 😂 I got a lazy 7 yr old and a wild 4 yr old.

@shamelessadi I think what it is is that she sees her mom steady judging how she looks. I told my friend she needs to watch what she says around her daughter. Because my friend stays saying shes fat (about herself not her daughter) and she wants to chop off her hair or do this and that because she isn't happy about how she looks. And my friend is really pretty and her daughter looks just like her just darker. She does let her have her Instagram and all that and I already told her about that too that shes too young. But I'm sure you know how that convo went lol. I dont really like my oldest to play with her I feel like she knows alot and she thinks shes cool around my son because she knows things and tells him and my son is still innocent and clueless lol. But I guess everyone raises their kids different.

@d0iinjusfiin3 you right that's way to young SMH

@d0iinjusfiin3 know in days some people don't dress are do they girls hair like little girl's anymore everything changed