So I have a little Dilemma now I’m 23 and married been married for almost 3 years now we have one…
So I have a little Dilemma now I’m 23 and married been married for almost 3 years now we have one child and live in our own home....so my mother lives around the corner from us and like most daughters I’m always there for my mom no matter what but I feel as though she doesn’t respect that I am now a mother and wife and have my own home to tend to. She will call and expect me to drop whatever I’m doin throw Ava on my hip and come or to sit for hours and do nothing when I simply just want to be home or have things to do she mildly just ignores what I fell is important or what I want to do and it’s also starting to bother my husband. In a sense not really treating me like a grown woman today she wants me to come over soon as hubby goes to work and clean her hse 😑 mind you I have 2 siblings that still live there teenage siblings and I’m just wondering why do I keep being called out of my comfort to do things that I wasn’t responsible for or that can simply be done on their own. I don’t want to be so straightforward and seem disrespectful but I don’t know what to do and my mother is old school strict and kinda set in her ways...😪 just need to vent
Sevrina Perez·
I think you should be honest with her....in a respectful way of course. It sounds like you should talk to your sisters as well and ask them to help more. Your priority at the end of the day is your household. If none of them can respect that then maybe you need some distance...I don't know if this helps at all..
sherry S·
My middle sister lives with my mom& doesn't have kids..I live over 1 Hr away.work fulltime and have 3 kids .. my middle sister won't clean or barely help my mom & I have an older sister that used to live 1 hr north .she does nothing for my mom..I feel in every family this happens I tried to help her when my dad passed away for 2yrs straight w bills groceries there is only so much I can do too.. my mom isn't motherly either never has been
Sha'Quandria Dillard·
Мама дочки (2 года)
@sherrynygirl, my lil sis is a senior so I understand she’s busy with school but still and my lil brother is just lazy they both are my momma is a good one but she is so much easier on then the. She was me and it irritating cause I’m the one called to do stuff that ant mine to do but you know how it is hard to tell your mother no
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My mom has bipolar anxiety depression and since her stroke she's been worse. She moved 15 minutes away she use to live 4minutes away. She expected me to drive to her house take her and my 18 year old sister to the store to buy glue and she wanted me to do this with all 3 kids. I was like hell no. They both cussed me out etc. I saw this on momlife the other day.
sherry S·
@roguemommyofjx3 I agree 100%
Erica·
I wouldnt clean their mess... you have your own house and family to worry about and clean up after...