I am only 6 months in marriage and everytime My husband and I get into an arguement he always leave, I am not saying leave for a few hours, he pack his stuff and leave....Am I wrong to not keep putting up with it? I have been told I have very thick skin, and I think today was the last straw...I have a 2 year old and is 9 months pregnant..Who want a 3rd child?
Sorry that seems extreme..i understand to go for a car ride when mad... to pack your shit not cool..sorry your going thru that...
My first instinct when my husband and i fight is to run. For me that's how i grew up, it was easier to run away rather then work things out. Maybe talk to him or try a couples counselor?
@sherrynygirl Right and I do not mind if he go for a car ride or something like that for us to get space but leave ...is not cool! thanks love 😐
@kittykatsmeow Yes very extremem and I can not keep putting up with this
@vhutcheson09 no leave and pack his own shit..he's quick usually only if the woman is mad she'll pack his shit..talk to him
@kmharr3 You know I totally understand because I know thats what he use to doing but after a while, I can not keep taking him back and being turned on and off its not fair ..I have told him we not gonna make it if he does not stop doing that and say he gonna stop but still does it....Yeah we might need counseling...I really feel like im done
Is he breaking up with you each time? Sometimes we need space to think and cool off. I guess you have to decide if that's worth ending everything you guys have worked for. I'm very thankful my husband understands and trys to be supportive when I do it. It bothers the hell out of him but it's not worth leaving me over. I would try couples counseling or some couples work books to help sort out your issues in a positive and safe way. I personally would try everything possible before leaving him especially when there are kids are involved. Your feelings are completely valid I just believe a healthy marriage is worth fighting for and it is hard and takes a lot of work
@kmharr3 No he be the 1st one hitting me up cause he want to come back...but he is also walking out on my son when he does that.. I know marriage is alot of work but how much can you take?? its not right to always leave and take all his stuff thats childish
Honestly the first year of marriage is the hardest as you guys are trying to figure out how to put up with each other. My husband and I have been together 10 years and it still is hard but we love each other and we are worth fighting for
Marriage is hard. I'm here if you wanna talk about it, we read a lot of books and did a lot of work book type stuff to help. Everyone has their breaking point though, just gotta decide if it's worth being a single mother over
@kmharr3 Very true!!!! And yes thanks glad to know someone has been here in this place...What types of books? and you right
The 3 books we love are The 5 love languages, his needs her needs, and how we love. You can find some work sheets online or a counselor may have some good resources
@vhutcheson09, pray to him and trust me he will guide you on what to do don’t ignore the signs when god shows you something believe him
@tyshaijames2018 Yes he will cause God is awesome and will show us those signs
@kmharr3 Oh yes I definitely have heard of the 5 Love languages!! I will look those up...thanks so much too
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@tyshaijames2018 Right and Im really praying to God for guidance