Am I wrong for being mad that my boyfriends mom always put herself in situations to need him an know…
Am I wrong for being mad that my boyfriends mom always put herself in situations to need him an know I’m not working an he has bills an responsibility it’s like she never keep our daughter never come by her birthday was Thursday an she didn’t get her anything but always needs money for her lights rent are some an when I complain he say she still my mom your mom that’s a user he didn’t even grow up with her I’m just wondering what I should do because she causing problems in our relationship
deleted-user·
This use to happen then one day I said what does she do for us. And he thought about because she does everything for her other kids.
antoinette23·
I said that he can’t seem to understand she only come around when she needs some I’m at a point we’re it’s crazy he gave her 400$ for her light bill who let there light bill get that high I’m starting to think that’s who he bought to be with
Harley Quinn ·
We dealt with that for a little while. Finally my husband took a step back and just kinda of saw that we couldn’t afford to keep giving her money. She is an adult and should be able to take care of herself, now we still help her out from time to time, but it’s not such large sums of money. And I didn’t say anything until a little later when it got to be an all the time thing.
And she’s grateful for it.
antoinette23·
Yeah that’s understandable maybe because I just started being a stay home that I’m panicking about money I think I’m going to go back to work 🤦🏽♀️ I miss being independent
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My sister went through this for 12 years ... they always lived with her MIL because whenever they tried moving out she’d get panic attacks and end up in the hospital all of us knew she was faking it because she didn’t want her son to leave her (her only son) my sister had to do everything for her because her husband would tell her she needed to take care of her even tho she is 100% healthy and makes herself sick ... he never took my sister into consideration and it was always about his mom ... 2 years ago they moved out because he finally seen what his mom was actually doing , they got a space for rent and just a month ago they bought their own house . They’ve been doing much better since they left and my brother in law opened his eyes and was seeing that his mom was manipulating him after all those years ... he just needs to see it . May take time but he eventually will see it