Am I a bad person for not wanting to be with my significant other although we’ve been dating since freshman year............ we’re 21 now. I’m pregnant and My feelings have changed.
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Makes sense but doesn't make it right. (No judgment just my personal opinion) Whether you're with him or not that is his child. & Most guys are childish shit I'm almost 30 & married and can STILL find things to complain about it. But one thing I know is my Husband truly loves me, he adores is kids, and he prides himself in providing for us.
At 21 I wasn't ready for a baby or a committed relationship so I can understand you trying to figure things out and wanting the best for your unborn child. But don't count him out just yet. Does he work? Is he willing to make some changes for his family.
In my experience males don't start maturing until 25 -30 granted some do earlier and some never do.
Idk how old he is , but hopefully y'all can come up with a plan that benefits the child💖
@breederofboyz, I’ve been in between for a while now, he’s not progressing he’s stuck in his ways. I’m about to attend graduate school and finish with my bachelors. He’s now engulfed with FRIENDS. Etc, I’ve been trying to make things work because he genuinely loves me and sometime seems to do better. But now that I found out I’m pregnant I realized how unhappy I’ve been with him as a whole. He’s 21 and still childish. I want a healthy happy baby. Does that make sense? Idk what to do
Why wait until you're pregnant to want to separate?
@breederofboyz, he’s excited. But I don’t feel as if he’s willing to step up. He’s okay with making minimum wage or just enough to take care of what he needs. Always makes excuses, rather do anything for a buck than work. I’ve always been his back bone and would get him out of trouble etc. his saving grace but I don’t want to take care of a child, and have a man around that I don’t even know will pay the light bill. I wouldn’t take him from his child at all but I don’t want to be miserable either