Always think about if I taught Jayden enough , if I spent enough time with him , If he felt enough…
Always think about if I taught Jayden enough , if I spent enough time with him , If he felt enough love , are there things I could of did differently. These are my thoughts everyday when he goes to bed .
Since he has said any words yet, and can’t pull himself up onto furniture (I have to help) , I feel like I’m not doing enough or I’m doing something wrong 😭
I know every baby is different, but I’ve been trying to get him to speak since he was 4 months & he started crawling a little after 8 months. Just worries me😭.
I’m done venting but my anxiety gets so bad, I just wanna be the best mother I could be to him because I didn’t have that with my parents ..
sherry S·
The Fact that you want to be a better parent than you had says..a lot..yes each baby grows and learns dif..and so you know by age 1 they are to know 3 words and by 15 month's 5 words..my oldest 2son walked at 9 month's and jayden walked at 13 month's but.he is stronger ..runs.walks backwards..does thing's they didn't do.each child reaches their milestones when their little body is ready and out of all my son's jayden said mama 1st i cried and I'm not an emotional girl...in most languages babies say dad 1st.you have soo much to look fwd to with your Jayden ❤
deleted-user·
The fact that you worry about this, makes you an amazing mother.
I think most moms feel this way! I still do, myself.
I’ve always been the type of mom to just go with the flow. No need to rush them, let them do it on their own time. I miss the baby stage ( hints why I’m pregnant for the 3rd time in 5 years 🙃)
I think you are doing wonderful, and don’t beat yourself up! Before you know it, he’ll be 2 years old, talking your ear off from the time you wake to the time you go to sleep 😂 enjoy these little things!!
Monica·
My nephew didn't even sit on his own until 8 months, where my son did at 4m. Every child is different, they all learn at their own pace, and you can't compare them! It's okay. Because you worry shows that you ARE a good mom. Bad mom's don't worry about things like that.
I worry about so many things. I worry that I don't interact enough, don't teach him enough, yell too much, that I'm feeding him all the wrong things. I worried that he didn't point by the time he was 'supposed' to, didn't speak enough words, etc. Then he started pointing and hasn't stopped. Now he doesn't shut up. Mostly unintelligible babbles, but he does come out with new words on a regular basis.
We all worry that we aren't good enough. But we are. Worrying shows we care, and when we care we try our hardest. Our babies love us, and one day he'll wake up and be climbing on the couch and your bed, running around the room, he'll say dozens of words, and you'll find something else to worry about, haha.
Rikki🌙·
You're not alone girl. I think lots of women worry about stuff like this. The fact that you have these worries shows that you are a good mommy in my opinion.
t 👑·
Thank you ladies so much !! 😭💕
deleted-user·
Girl he's fine. They says girl talk earlier than boys and boys move faster than girls. Here's a recap on my almost 15 month olds progress. Rolled over at 5 months
Started sitting up by herself at the end of 7 months
Crawling at 8 months
Standing at 9 months
Finally walking at 14 1/2 months.
I worry sometimes myself but every babe is different. My dad died when i was 8 and my mother never did nothing for me. I also want different for my babe. Uh girl. Have you soon what you made?! He's handsome and his momma is back to her banging body. You're always taking pics of him smiling and giggling!! You're doing great. Stop being so hard on yourself 😙😙