I cannot take my bfs mom any longer. Living with her has been so hard while being pregnant. I was…
I cannot take my bfs mom any longer. Living with her has been so hard while being pregnant. I was talking about my baby shower and how I’m so excited to start planning and what not, and she has the nerve to say “why are you so excited it’s not for you it’s for the baby” LIKE REALLY. Let me be excited for my baby shower, I’ve always wanted to be a mom and dreamed about all these things and she just puts me down all the time. I feel like as soon as the baby comes she’s going to want to be with him all the time and I’m going to lose it.
Heather ·
What does your boyfriend say about it?
Emily·
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@missheatherbaby, all he says is “she doesn’t mean it” “why are you making such a big deal” “why are you so upset she’s just excited” I can’t stand it. He’s offered to talk to his mom and tell her to cool down but I hate confrontation. Since I live with her I don’t want to make her mad. Thank god my boyfriend and I are looking at apartments to move out soon🙌🏼🙌🏼
Heather ·
@babybump21, as long as you move out before the baby gets there then I think it will be fine. However, remember you are that child’s mother and if you need to tell her to calm the fuck down then tell her. I tell my mother in law about herself all the time.
Emily·
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@missheatherbaby, I wish I had the courage to, she gets mad so easily and yells all the time😩😩 we are DEFINITELY moving out before the baby comes. No way am I going to be able to handle living here with a baby.
Heather ·
@babybump21, it’s going to bother you A LOT when the baby is first born. Your hormones are going to be on a million. Just tell her how you feel sometimes. You don’t have to get crazy how I do lol but you can still tell her. If my mother in law was being like that about my baby shower I would’ve straight up told her this, “I’m going to be excited for MY baby shower because it’s MY baby that IM growing inside of MY body that is coming out of MY vagina. Please take a seat now 🤷🏻♀️.”
Angela·
@babybump21 It will be easier once you move out you can be able to put your foot down. I'd go crazy too.
Sabrina·
Мама двоих (3 года, 10 лет)
Omg sounds like something my mother in law would say to me 🤣 good luck with her !