Sometimes I wish I could reverse roles with my fiance so he truly understands how much I do... he…
Sometimes I wish I could reverse roles with my fiance so he truly understands how much I do... he works full-time and I'm home full-time right now with my daughter.. I love her with everything I have, but there are days I'm so drained... I never have a break.. ever I'm constantly going all day, feeding, changing, playing, doing laundry, dishes, vacuuming, dusting, cooking dinner, cleaning up dinner... taking care of two dogs.. keep track of all my Dr apts and my daughter's as well, and the list goes on. He tells me he COMPLETELY UNDERSTANDS. Well I beg to differ... I'm so tired all of the time my daughter will be two in almost 4 months and has only 8 teeth in so far... it is taking a lot longer for teething then I ever thought.. which makes her extra needy.. I don't blame her I can't even imagine the pain babies go through with this.. but I'm tired.. while he sits at work all day typing on a computer I'm home running around the house like a mad woman. And it's crazy I do so much cleaning yet I feel like the house still looks like a tornado went through it!!!! Just one week to switch roles with him then he will really understand what I do daily compared to what he does daily! Then maybe he'll appreciate me more! Cause I'm tired of feeling unappreciated I do so much and don't ask for much. Yet here I am feeling defeated and shitty.
Toya·
Okay so I literally just had this conversation with my husband last night how crazy so today he kinda shadowed me everytime I was up with the kids he was up with the kids and I would periodically ask him hmmm are you tired because I knew he was he couldn't help but be and all he could say was how sorry he was by the end of the night
Emily ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@cupcake231 awe! It's a lot to do... my fiance helps me at times but I do most of it and it is a lot to handle at times. Maybe I should have him shadow me all day so he fully understands.
Toya·
Trust me girl I knooooow I have 2 kids under 2 and go to school and trying to go back to work i ALWAYS have my hands full
Emily ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@cupcake231 I was working but not now. I am attending school as well I can't imagine two kids under two.. that must be a lot. Hang in there.