When men use the “I work every day” card. Goodie, Jobs give them breaks, They work 9hrs then they’re…

Yes this is what I deal with daily. I’m sorry you’re going through that. Do you have a friend or family member that can help you?

If a man truly cares about you they will message you all of the time no matter what they are doing, when I first started dating my ex no matter what he was doing he would text me / text me back... then as we got further into our relationship ( around the 6 month mark ) all of a sudden he had no time to text or call me he was " busy " same excuse he used so he didn't have to take responsibility for walking away from being a father. Because he didn't have the time... But honestly who doesn't have the time to send a 2 second text this took me less than 30 seconds to type out and post. Men are liars especially when they get bored of you.

@daniellebreakfieldd8, It’s so frustrating they don’t see it. We take care of the kids and them all day, Make sure everything is good and ready for them too. I do but my in law has 5 of her kids a home that she home schools and doesn’t live too closed, And my mom lives a little far. Plus I hate having to ask others for help.

& you deserve that time to yourself Hun if I were you, when he comes home one day just slip out the door tell him you have to go pick something up from the post office or some bs and then take a few well deserved hours to yourself Hun x

@mamaof2here, I feel you. I spent my birthday at home with the kiddos like any other day.

I definitely understand your pain

@mommaxbearx, My friend did that to her boyfriend one time 😂 She showed up at my house and said, I told my boyfriend I needed to run some errands but she just wanted to vent and get out lol

@tyshaijames2018, It’s so frustrating

@karennn, I know it is I work part time and my fiancé works full time he actually works at least 60 hours a week and he is the total opposite of that he is very hands on with our son and he does not complain when I don’t feel like cooking and etc. we help each other and that’s the way it should be! I’m sorry you have to go through that women don’t deserve that at all we bear the children and that’s the hardest thing in the world

@tyshaijames2018, Bless your husband. That’s how my inlaws are and they had 10 kids, My husband being the oldest and the youngest being 5. His dad helps his mom especially because she has some health issues and so do the older kids. He takes her out every Friday and that’s that he also works. And he’s been doing that since they had my husband. That’s how it should be, It takes two to make a baby. It should be team work, I understand right now I don’t work and he does, But all I sometimes ask is for at least an hour to take a long peaceful shower. I don’t even go out and if I do, I take my kids with me.

Ugh constant argument here. I work full time, have 4 kids, and am also responsible for EVERYTHING in my home. Cooking cleaning shopping waking up all night long with the baby etc. Even taking care of my husband and tasks he should be doing himself. He doesn’t lift a finger. Oh and he works from home so he is always here too.

@karennn, same I hate asking for help. But I also hate having to tell him how to be a parent.

@karennn, yup that’s the least he can do

@kirstin678, Girl that’s just crazy! You deserve the most free time you can get. Not to mention you carried the children, Least they can do is help.

@daniellebreakfieldd8, Same. They do say women mature faster than men lol. I love my kiddos so I don’t hate doing what I do. I just wish I could some times take long showers or sleep a little longer. And just have some zen time so I don’t feel like I’m going crazy

@karennn, tell me about it. I could definitely use a little help!

@kirstin678, You definitely deserve it.

Ugh that drives me crazy! Mine gets irritated when I take a long shower or bubble bath before laying down in bed fo the night and ask him to put the toddler to bed. It’s like ummm... I wake up at 6am, get two kids fed, dressed, and to school. He gets to just get up and go. Then I’m working until 8-4, pick the little one up from day care and bring the preteen to sports practices and games 3-4 nights/days a week. Come home from practice to cook, clean up, make sure homework is done, make sure they’re bathed and ready for bed. My only day off during the week I’m usually grocery shopping, doing laundry, and meal prepping. And I’m lucky if I get my nails done once a month, and a hair cut every 6 months. Meanwhile, he gets up and goes every morning, strolls in past dinner, and gets to sleep in on the weekends. Men suck...

@alycia_marie, Yeah they don’t give us our credit. Girl I never get my nails done lol, If I have time I paint them and will have the same nail polish on all shipped for a while until I can do them again lol

This! 💓