People are so ungrateful you let family move in so they can get back on they feet or tell them to respect your house and then they get mad like if you can’t respect our wishes then leave 😒
@breederofboyz, I honestly can’t do it anymore them being petty about the situation,them not appreciating us letting them stay with us and the list goes on I’m at my breaking point i broke down crying to my mom on the phone I’m so depressed and my emotions all over the place I’m still going through postpartum and I’m not as happy about moving into the house like I should
That's why its a catch 22 when trying to help people especially family . But him being a control freak And on drugs isn't a good combo . Like you said he has a choice to make follow the rules or leave . There can't be two Alpha males in one household . Your husband is the head and whatever y'all say goes ! Period. But at least y'all are moving soon and he's not going .
@kiaraherbert24, right now we live in an apartment we just bought our first new house and we move in May 11th his brother think he’s moving in with us but my husband already said no
@breederofboyz, honestly I wasn’t so sure but it was my husband brother and his family that needed help but now I’m regretting it they moved from Ohio to South Carolina because they couldn’t pay rent and now i know the reason why is because they were on drugs they’ve stayed with their grandma and their dad and now us my husband brother is a control freak who hates being told what to do and i told him if you don’t like our rules then fucking leave the he said “we won’t have anywhere else to go and i don’t want my child to be homeless”
I’m like all you have to do is respect our rules he’s one of those guys that he thinks the word owns him something
@jazzie_eibeck people forget favors are a choice & not a requirement.
People have rules (one reason why I vowed never to put myself in a situation that I need to stay with someone) if you don't want to follow them , then find some where else to stay