You can get a dna test at Walmart. They send it to a lab and send it back. I don’t think the state would be able to use that info ? But the baby would have to be here for that.

@toshagager it's different here in NY, I've had state assistance with insurance and benefits and they only asked if I wanted to claim child support and at the time I said no so they never bothered my son's father for it until I decided to go for it but@lghnnsmnr231 I would try to convince her to take a dna test and if she refuses then I'd block her just like your mom and brother did... I mean she could also be refusing a test because he may actually not be the father and she may just want to say he is either because she doesn't want the real father to be involved or she wants to trap your brother.. Some women can be shady as hell and we all know that

@toshagager congrats. Omg. I had my two and i am D.O.N.E 😂

@lghnnsmnr231 yr welcome

@lghnnsmnr231 young girls don't always think straight when I was young I couldn't wait to be a mom I had my 1st at 18 and I didn't everything for my baby and here I am going on 30 about to have my 6th baby lol

@toshagager thank you boo ❤❤

@lghnnsmnr231 I know I hope so too I hope the best for all of u tho

Im starting to think she just wants to put the baby off on someone. Idk

@toshagager thanks girl. I guess i just look at it like a little baby my brother you know. And ir pulls at my heart strings. But my whoke check is gone and i just gir paid Thursday from tryinf to help this girl. And she hasnt even told me thank you. She just keeps telling me to talk to my brother about her. I really hope i did not get played

@lghnnsmnr231 I guess the court just might do that if that state takes matters into their own hands

@lghnnsmnr231 well I guess people need to really think about the situation no one should have to take care or provide for a child that they didn't make unless if they want to

And my brother is refusing to take a dna test unless uts court orderd

@toshagager no. But she cant afford a dna test . With her insurance its 2,000 she has tricare. So she would have to go through the state to be abke to afford the dna test and she wont

@lghnnsmnr231 yes u are and u shouldn't be it's not ur son ur responsibility yes it's ur brother and u love him but u also have ur own family to worry about

Do the moms receive state help if not I dontn know how they have a right to get involved