How can a 16 year get pregnant and aint even trying i mean i dont think she is and not even have a…
How can a 16 year get pregnant and aint even trying i mean i dont think she is and not even have a job or anything
And shes my sister at that im 18 and i have a job a house a car and about to go to college and everytime i get pregnant i miscarry and when i got pregnant at 14 i didnt tell no one cause i would be kicked out my parents house but when i called my mama i literally cried asking her why she does me so wrong but when it comes to her she can stay like im not trying to sound jeslous but could someone tell me whats going on why why everytime i done something bad i literally get my head slapped into the wall but when it comes to my 16 year old sister she gets babyed what makes it so bad is my mother has 8 kids
Special treatment is what i call it
Kaleen·
@blakeslatinmama thats not even what im talking about i know how the body works
Amanda Bates·
Sometimes parents are tougher on the oldest. Is she the baby of the family?
Kaleen·
@charmed040309 im the oldest shes the second oldest
💕Vivian Aide Gonzalez 💕·
Maybe because you’re more responsible and try to do things better so when you do something bad they don’t want you to mess up , and her well they are probably used to having her just do whatever n her being pregnant well what else can they do.
I get you tho, my parents where the same way with me.
I’m still the good one 🙂 no matter what , and my sister well she’s always gonna need my parents help and they do everything for her which it used to bother me, but now it’s like whatever she’s older than me she’s 28 going to 29 and still can’t get her life together, and yet again my mom does everything for her 🙄 it’s annoying!
Kaleen·
@vivi.luvs.abisai never looked at it like that but my mama has her favorites thats one that ill never have for my children my mama has 8 kids hut favors all of them and treats me like poop but im out the house happy about that ill never do that to my kids cause i know how it feels
HeatherK ·
Idk I was 16 when I got pregnant. But I didn’t receive special treatment. And as soon as I found out I got a job. I hope things work out better for you. And I just became pregnant again after 14 years. It took me forever to get pregnant again.
HeatherK ·
You’re time will come if you’re trying to have a baby ;) or wanting
Kaleen·
@sea_monkey23 understand that but my sister isnt in the right state mind idk however you could put it but other familys are different
HeatherK ·
Hmm I don’t know how to help :( I’m sorry. I don’t know what kind of advice. Except I understand how you feel about her never getting punished. Two of my siblings do no wrong in my moms eyes. But I was way wrong when I got pregnant at 16. So I understand how you feel. But no advice to give except hang in there. And hopefully things get better
Kaleen·
@sea_monkey23 thanks
HeatherK ·
You’re welcome love
Amanda Bates·
@xoxopurplelove exactly what vivi said. Sometimes we expect a lot from our oldest kids