I’m so annoyed since I found out I’m pregnant and been sick to my stomach plus mood swings I have…
I’m so annoyed since I found out I’m pregnant and been sick to my stomach plus mood swings I have not been interested in sex at all ladies . And I have been trying to explain this to my SO that it’s not him it’s just the hormones and he does not understand no care to all he do is complain . I can’t think about sex when I feel like throwing up 80 percent of the time and I’m still tending to 2 children and one is only 1yrs . I would rather have sex with him cause I want to then doing it and the whole time feeling disgusted and ready to throw up or in my head waiting for it to be done . Have you ladies gone through this before ??
Mother Of Him&Her·
Yes, I don't think this is uncommon at all. Just guys have a hard time understanding and comprehending that the beginning is a lot draining on the body and we need a little break.
Jen·
Totally normal
Jeanetta ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@wolfnurturer, and that’s all I’m askin for I’m telling him it’s not forever it’s just for now to just work with me and be patient because he doesn’t know how I’m feeling . But he’s just being a big ass baby . Now if I was to have sex with him and be completely shut off from him and looked uninterested he’ll will be offended and pissed and then we’ll be talking about that for ever . I’m just not interested right now . Intimacy isn’t always about sex gosh 😑
Mother Of Him&Her·
@prestonjeanetta0120 if you have any appointments with your doctor coming up maybe him hearing from them will help a lot. Also I'd just keep trying to talk and be honest. Like "I'm not going to be into it and you'll be mad and I don't want that for us or you". Hope he comes around!
Amber·
Yes. I had a crazy drive at 8 weeks but then it faded at 11 weeks and now is sorta coming back. It also doesn’t help that my nipples don’t feel good and my hubby is a boob man. It felt like a chore. But just know, you will be okay soon.
taylo'·
On the contrary maybe when our SO doesnt want to have sex we do but then if they do we dont lol but i dont remember wanting to ever do anything at allll when i was feeling sick for at least the first month or two... I hated everybody and just wanted to be in bed... Must be crazy to have to build the strength to get up and care for the little ones... #supermom
taylo'·
And im sorry he makes u feel pushed men are gross lol 😂
Jeanetta ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 8 лет), ждёт третьего
@taylormightknow, lmao they are gross aren’t they lol gotta love them 🤦🏾♀️ yes it is hard and I can’t make him understand so it is what it is . But he just left for work for the night and I still feel crappy so me and the kids are going to my moms right around the corner for the night .
KLove·
Eww NO. SEX. DRIVE. at all!!! makes me nauseous too...mentally, then physically...them forcing the issue also is a total turn off!!! Good luck girl
taylo'·
@prestonjeanetta0120 sounds good so she can hang out with the kids while u could relax for a bit. Poor momma 😌