I need advice ladies i just had my princess 2 weeks ago csection fr c section u know the feeling i…
I need advice ladies i just had my princess 2 weeks ago csection fr c section u know the feeling i live with my husband n he works mon thru friday coming home late sometimes his family doesnt help only sometimes bt u can tell they dont want to his mom will say she will help but never does i was diagnosed with a abses n post partum depression so i decided 2 come stay with my mom fr 2 weeks or so he was sort of.mad ut i feel.like i need 2 take care of myself n moms r always gma b there for u its not the same when is mil so she finds put n comes at me cuz im 3 hours away saying how im selfish n my husband needs bonding time with his kids n i went off onher tellin her i need 2 heal n take care of myself n tl stay out of our business or ima keep telling her off everytime she has done this several times where i had 2 tell her off am i wrong for leaving for however long i need n going off on her for butting into the situation when it has nothing at all to do with her she calls me selfish but she the ome only think in of her son n not my well being so i feel like she got what she deserved ive neem telling my husband 2 puther in her place or i would all he says ia ignore her but im not about to let her think she cam talk to me however she wants ima tell her how i feel im a grown woman n if she dont care about me getting better than she needs 2 stfu n mind her fuxkin buismess xuz im not the type to feel disrespected n keep my mouth shut
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You’re not wrong you need to take care of yourself so you can take care of your baby , if she isn’t willing to help you even at the least then she shouldn’t be budding in , on the other hand baby’s father will have all the time in the world when you feel better and go back to your place he should be supporting your choice and not hers. If your mom was willing to help you take advantage of it to take care of yourself and don’t worry about your MIL opinion because in reality it doesn’t matter , you’re doing what’s best for you and your baby , taking care of yourself for her . You could be miles away but if dad won’t be there because of work or not help then you have every right to search somewhere else
Johnell Lewis ·
Мама сына (2 года)
I had a c section as well. And formed an abscess. I had a hole in my stomach for 3 months it was terrible. Plus I had post part. So I understand what you’re going through. You have to do what’s best for you. You have to be healthy to raise your baby.
Jeny Laielli·
@johnell omg
Jeny Laielli·
@johnell y did u have a hole hun if u dnt mind me asking
Johnell Lewis ·
Мама сына (2 года)
@larubia2723, the abscess needed to drain and they said the best thing for it was to just leave it open to leak so I had an open hole that was leaking for two months and then it took another month for them to get it to close. It was terrible.
Jeny Laielli·
Omg !