How do you tell literally rn my only friend - that you don’t wanna bring your kid over to play w…

How do you tell literally rn my only friend - that you don’t wanna bring your kid over to play w theirs bc she’s rude to your child ?😩 it’s a shitty situation bc this is one of my best friends I’ve made here .. & she’s been w me through my pregnancy and still to this day. But as her child who’s now 3... just wants to sit on her moms phone .. won’t let no one touch that shit and dousnt share her toys and is really rude to my daughter . & her moms the type to just say “no.. don’t do that” & that’s it .. The only reaction she’ll get is if the kids throwing a tantrum and she doesn’t wanna hear her anymore 😒I’ll tell my friend when her outfit doesn’t match - but i don’t tell people how to parent . But her daughters mean and i WANT to hang out w my friend , but not a her kid lol. I bring C to play & all she does is follow me around and not let me breath bc she doesn’t want to play w the girl anymore bc she acts like that, even tho C like .. looks up to her almost . She’s always wanting to play w her but the kid never wants to just play. Might be the age , might be the fact that homegirl doesn’t discipline her 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ but now idk what else to do or how to bring it up to her w out seeming like I’m coming at her sideways . Wich I’m not - i just want them to play so we can hang out !! Gurrrrrrr