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I don’t understand how I would spend 3 years with someone who tears me down when he doesn’t get what he wants. Who’s…

I don’t understand how I would spend 3 years with someone who tears me down when he doesn’t get what he wants. Who’s asking for “his half” of the income tax money when we aren’t even married and I do all the work when it comes to raising our son and I’m the one paying for everything. I only see money from him like once a month and that’s not enough when he makes a hell of a lot more money then I do. I’m just so over it. 3 years down the drain. 💔

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takiahilk

Takia EddieМама двоих (3 года, 4 года), ждёт третьего

@elijahsmama, do what’s best for you and your son I’m in something similar been doing this for 5 years marriage or not I’m tired exhausted it becomes too much

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

@elijahsmama never alone ! Just we as women keep those secrets to our grave..not easy to share but...know it gets better if you make different choices for your sanity

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carlalizzzz

CarlalizМама сына (1 год)

@morgyporgypudninpie, @ariks89, @sherrynygirl, thank you for all the support! I really needed it! Sometimes I feel like I’m all alone. 😔

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carlalizzzz

CarlalizМама сына (1 год)

@ariks89, it does hurt. I had hope he would change but nothing has change so what can I do? There’s nothing left to do but move on.

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ariks89

AriМама двоих (младенец)

It hurts, but you deserve better mommy. I'm in a similar situation. And it really does break my heart @elijahsmama

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carlalizzzz

CarlalizМама сына (1 год)

@morgyporgypudninpie, I honestly don’t know. He says he needs it to move but then it would leave me stuck at my moms with not enough down payment for my own house to move into in the future.

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

@elijahsmama 100% correct your son's money not his

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carlalizzzz

CarlalizМама сына (1 год)

@morgyporgypudninpie, I’ve been telling him it’s our sons money. Not his but he feels like he’s entitled to this money too because he’s the father

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carlalizzzz

CarlalizМама сына (1 год)

@sherrynygirl, thanks! I’m trying, even though I know it’s going to be hard

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sherrynygirl

sherry S

Do what makes YOU happy

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