I keep trying to give the new baby’s dad a chance and he keeps failing me, cussing and screaming at me, being cheap and selfish, cheating both emotionally and physically, and now he decides to tell me that I suck at parenting my 7 year old son because i let him stay up a little later on spring break watching a movie in bed ? Ugh i hate this guy but love him at the same time but i feel like i love what isn’t real, and in reality over the time we’ve been together it’s actually only been pain. I hate him. I wish i could cut the chord i have attached to him so i don’t keep going back to him, but being pregnant and single is scary and lonely. I’m glad i have good jobs and my own place now but i worry about when the baby comes being alone.
Sorry for venting
He sounds mentally abusive and it will continue I know easily said then done.. But now's the time to go cause I'd be concerned about my children around him.. That isn't love sweet heart he's got issues prayers up for you.. This makes me scared for you and the kids
Dont stay just because you need a man. You have your son and another on the way have some lady balls and leave him and just push hard for your children. I did that best decision I made because life has something for you because i reconnected back with my ex and he accepts me for who i am an independent woman that does not take crap from anyone because I am pushing hard for my boys.
The very least you can do is protect you and your kids from his emotional and physical abuse.
You are to blame too if you stay in such a hostile environment because....”love and loneliness”
If your not happy take it from me and leave now I stayed put up with so much and now have 3 kids from the same dude and lost everything except them I don't have a good job, place, or car and now trying to get everything I lost alone while he is out with who knows partying and not a worry in the world
Never stay with a man just because you both have a child together.
You’re happinesses and your child’s happiness comes first 💜
Girl do not stay with him all he'll do is make you feel like you're not worthy. It's not love you feel it's the fact that you're so use to him it's become a routine to have him in your life but you'll be fine as a single mom, just remember your happiness and your babies are always first regardless of what happens in life . Stay strong ❤️