why are guys such pains in the ass? My boyfriend has me take care of the kids at night so he can sleep which i understand because he drives trucks a but yesterday i was in the urgebt care and found out i have colitis which almost sent me to the er and he gives 2 shits that i could die vecause of the severity of it. Like he left his keys in the front door, made me take the dogs out, put kids to bed and then ask me to stay up to wash his clothes. Tomorrow is my first day back to work and idk how in the world im going to function because i can barly move without having pain just really with i had a boyfriend that gave a shit and not think of himself