PERSONAL BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO: I can’t do it anymore with my baby’s father. He hasn’t shown me…
PERSONAL BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO:
I can’t do it anymore with my baby’s father. He hasn’t shown me any respect and nothing has gotten better and I know I’m still kinda early on with my pregnancy but I think how a man treats a woman while she’s carrying their child is a really big deal and shows a lot about someone. Am I right?
In my eyes he’s very emotionally and mentally abusive and I can’t take it anymore and so far I’ve had three people tell me he is by just explaining the things he’s done to me.
I know that my actions could take some part in how he treats me but I’ve done nothing but try to respect him the best I can and do what he asks and we aren’t even together as a couple. I go broke every time mostly because of him, I support him financially. I try to support him emotionally but he just doesn’t open up and when I try to open up, he either gets mad and doesn’t wanna hear it or never lets me explain enough and just doesn’t help at all..
I’ve fallen apart because of the way he’s been treating me and I know that someone should never have that power over anyone but I’m just a really fragile person, especially with being pregnant and because I’ve been abused in several ways before.. He says that when the baby’s born all he’s gonna do is work, come home, eat, play video games and sleep and “check on” the baby to see how him or her are doing... in my eyes that’s not being a real father at all...
but I guess at least he’s still around is what counts.. I’m just so sick of him feeling like it’s okay to do the things he does to me..
Karine Castrejon·
Мама дочки-младенца
Girl, speaking from experience if you feel like that do it, if you really don’t see a good future with him then it’s okay to break up. It’s now about the baby & you. Do it before it’s too late you don’t know how to break up cause you already have the baby. It’s gonna suck but you’ll feel so much relief afterwards. Just focus on baby & your happiness. That baby needs his/her mom to be happy 💗💗
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@karinecastrejon, We’re not even together though.. and he still treats me like this.. sometimes it just makes me feel disrespected; not only as his baby’s mother but just as a woman... and that’s the toughest part sometimes.
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@karinecastrejon, and I’m trying to be as happy as I can, it’s such a struggle nowadays with the world we live in, I swear ☹️
Karine Castrejon·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mixedmomma2018, oh sorry didn’t read that right. But since you’re not together then you don’t have to be around him, you don’t have to support him in any way just cause he’s your BD. He’s the one that’s supposed to support baby & you. Mentally emotionally and all that. If he’s not doing it then get away from him. Keep him updated with baby but you’re not responsible to always talk to him if he’s disrespecting you. It’s hard to feel happy with so much going on but it’s gonna be okay! Your baby is your happiness, just wait until you have him/her. Whenever you’re feeling sad just hold your belly.. or when baby is here you’ll look at them hold baby, you’ll be holding your happiness and forget any other negative feeling going on 💗
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@karinecastrejon, I really just want to disappear.. I don’t want to be around him anymore.. he makes me feel so unwanted.. I just want what’s best for my child and as far as I can see, HE IS NOT IT. And I do hold my belly and feel my baby moving is another level of happiness that I want to cry over, I’m just so happy that I’m pregnant and that I’ll be able to experience being a mother. It’s all I’ve ever wanted since I was 15 and it’s already my happiness to know I’ve been giving someone life is amazing to me 💗💗 you know what I mean?
Karine Castrejon·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mixedmomma2018, yes i know what you mean 💗 you know what’s best for you and your baby do what you feel is right. Get away from him, as in if you live with him move out or have him move out. You guys aren’t together and just cause he’s the father of your child does not mean you HAVE to stay with him/live with him. Yes you can keep him updated on your pregnancy / baby once born but if he’s not showing he’s gonna be there 100% then why still be around someone who’s just a negative to your life? You deserve to be happy with your baby. Just wait until baby is born. It’s a wholeee other level of happiness best feeling ever 💗💗💗💗
Karine Castrejon·
Мама дочки-младенца
Your due date is same as mines was last year ☺️☺️
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@karinecastrejon, I bet and soon I plan on it hopefully. And awe! That’s awesome!!💗💗💗
Karine Castrejon·
Мама дочки-младенца
@mixedmomma2018, I went into labor 11:45pm sept 2 & had her just a bit before 10am on the 3rd 😊