My due date is creeping up, concerned. Since I had help with my daughter by a good friend who’s kids…

My due date is creeping up, concerned. Since I had help with my daughter by a good friend who’s kids went to the same school I was able to peacefully give birth to my son. Now with this pregnancy I have since then moved. My mother wants to help but she’s not really a grandma who has or tried to have kid things mainly because she lives with her bf.. anyway. Should I encourage her to buy stuff like a play pen, or start hustling to get stuff I’m thinking used..