***UPDATE***** I messaged him and told him, he was completely nice about it and understands the situation.
***UPDATE*****
I messaged him and told him, he was completely nice about it and understands the situation.
Okay ladies I need advice on what to do and please no judgement. The guy who I believed to be my child's father and I broke up two weeks before I found out I was pregnant. Well the night him and I broke up I got really drunk and went to my exs house and we ended up having sex and getting back together. When I found out I was pregnant we talked about it and we broke up because we believed it to not be his child and he has a daughter of his own that he needs to focus on rather than a new relationship with someone who's pregnant. Well when I got my ultrasound done I got a 3D photo of my baby and it looks just like my ex who I got with the night my other ex and I broke up. It's not been 4 months and I haven't talked to him and idk how to bring it up to him that it's a possibility that he could be the father. How should I do it? I can post photos of him and his daughter with a photo of my baby if you'd like to try and compare for yourself.
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The only way to know 100% who’s baby it is, is a DNA test. Looks cannot tell you for certain.
Kaitlyn Hayden ·
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@theinkedmommy, I know but my family is saying I need to bring it up and let it be known he could be the father before the baby gets here and I just don't know how to bring it up since we haven't talked in so long
Jenifer Lazarus·
@kaitlyn_hayden08 I would probably tell him you'll be doing a DNA test so he's aware. That way it doesn't come as a huge shock if it is his baby.
Jenifer Lazarus·
I would say,
I know we had talked about it and thought that the baby wasn't yours but I want you to know that I'm gonna have a DNA test done so we can be 100% sure who the father is.
Something simple but to the point
Alexandria·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
Tell him and get a DNA test. Looks can be super deceiving especially when their young. My sons sister was whiter than me and had red straight hair and had no features what so ever so my ex always said it wasn’t his baby. The older she got she developed her color her chair completely changed and had the "Hatten trait" ( naturally perfect eyebrows) got a court ordered DNA test and she was his. He felt terrible.
Samantha·
I would say to him Hey look it's a possibility I wanna do a DNA test to know for sure. Easy peasy. I'm sure he'd want to know. I'd hope he'd wanna know.
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@kaitlyn_hayden08, Just be 100% honest with him. It’s all you can do.