I wish so badly that I could be more excited about my sweet girl making her arrival, but I feel so guilty because I’m…
I wish so badly that I could be more excited about my sweet girl making her arrival, but I feel so guilty because I’m more scared than anything. I feel sad all the time because of the stress that I’m under, and the guilt of not feeling like I have enough time with my son. I just love him so much, I can’t even fathom loving another human being as much as I love him and that sounds terrible. I know that my feelings will change when she is here but as for now, I just feel like I’m losing time with my son and I don’t want him to ever resent me or feel that he’s not the center of my universe. The transition from 1-2 kids is already hard and she’s not even born yet. Anyone else feel this way? Did your feelings change and how did you adapt to have enough time for both children?
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Love multiplies, not divides. 💕
Megan ·
I was like that when I went from one to two children... but you will bounce right into it.. I love both my kids more than life itself! And it will be two different kinds of love idk it’s hard to explain.. I just made sure that I still had “me and son time” so he knew he was still the first born and you love him just the same if not more cause now he is an big brother.. your be fine momma 💚
Tabitha Sanchez·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
That's exactly how I felt when I was pregnant with my 2nd son. I felt horrible I cried alot towards the end of my pregnancy. And I still feel horrible at times because my 4 yr old wants alot of attention and doesn't want me to give my oldest any attention and my oldest sees that. Now I'm going to have a 3rd and oh my gosh I really don't know how ima do it. ☹
Tabitha Sanchez·
Мама двоих (4 года, 7 лет), ждёт третьего
And I have to be super nice to my 4 yr old because he has anger problems or adhd or both (I haven't taken him to see the Dr yet) so I have to approach him a certain way and baby him before he blows up.