Do you ladies think I’m a bad person if I ask my sister in law to be one of my birth partners…
Do you ladies think I’m a bad person if I ask my sister in law to be one of my birth partners instead of my mum?
I begged my mum to be at the birth of Harper and she refused because she thought it should just be me and my partner but I wanted her there... but I don’t want to ask her to be at this birth for the fact she said no when I asked her to be at Harper’s birth so why should she be at this baby’s birth?
Am I wrong in asking my sister in law?
charmaine gordon·
Not ally all at the end of the day you need to have who you want of she says anything just say to her what u have said to us xxx
Lauren·
I wouldn't say so! You have there who you want! Don't feel bad!xxx
Courtnie·
@chamzy32, she point blank refused to be at my daughters birth even after I begged her to so I just don’t believe she should be at this baby’s birth because it’s not fair xxx
Courtnie·
@ezchaz, @mckenziesmummy, thanks girls xxx
katie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
na hunni your not in the rong you can have any one you like oh will surport you xxxx
Courtnie·
@katiechurchill, he supports my decision completely as he will obviously be my other birth partner xxx
charmaine gordon·
@courtniek98x I agree babes she had her chance babes xx
Courtnie·
@chamzy32, that’s my point babe xxx
katie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
plus you need to be around ppl you fill comfy with as well and not nagging ppl telling you wnt to do when your in pain thats the worst hunni xxxx
Courtnie·
@katiechurchill, I know, I want my sister in law there because if my partner starts panicking she’ll be able to calm him as well. I’ll already be worrying from Harper’s birth xxx
katie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
@courtniek98x did you watch one born every min wen the dad fell to the floor bless him i was shocked when i saw that men think there all manly but wen it comes to blood and stuff like that oh my lmao and what hallend with ypue 1st birth hunni xxx
Courtnie·
@katiechurchill, yeah I watched it on catchup I couldn’t stop laughing at the poor bloke 😂 and I was induced at 37 weeks was in 4 days they broke my waters at 3cm and put me on the drip then I’d got to 10cm within 5 mins and was pushing but her heart rate kept going down and she was getting stressed so i had to be rushed down for emergency forceps and they found out she had the cord wrapped around her twice I had to have 7 stitches and kept in for 3 days after birth 😫xxx
katie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
that is the scearst thing i all way worry about the cord hunni is she ok now tho no health probs hunni xxxx
Courtnie·
@katiechurchill, yeah she’s a happy healthy nearly 2 year old 😍 xxxx
katie·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (25 нед.)
awwww im so glad hunni xxxx