So some of you may remember my aunt has been hovering me this whole pregnancy. She keeps buying…
So some of you may remember my aunt has been hovering me this whole pregnancy. She keeps buying things for the baby, offering advice and trying to help but she’s boarder line smothering us (my boyfriend and I) as parents. She has an input for everything. She bought a couch because SHE thought I needed new furniture even though I told her we have no use for it right now as I don’t want anything new or upgraded til the baby is older. Now she’s butt hurt because the person she bought it from is being a Dick (she’s been making payments) and came to my house to tell me if it wasn’t for me she wouldn’t even be dealing with this person 😒🙄 my boyfriend had a hard time but manage to bite his tongue but I can’t imagine my delivery at this point because I know she’s going to want to be in the room or at least be there soon after and we as a couple already discussed that this is our time as a new family and don’t want people there in the beginning. I’m not trying to start a fight because it’s the last thing I need right now but I obviously need to draw a clearer line. Sadly she just takes it too personally
Wvgirl·
When it comes to your delivery just politely explain to her that you want it to be just your boy friend at the hospital for the first couple of days and that you don't want any other visitors. If she gets mad she gets mad.
Deleted·
For the delivery and birth tell the staff you do not want visitors and you Don't have to open your door.
CAS·
@roguemommyofjx3, yeah I know either way I’ll get my privacy I am just not trying to deal with the aftermath 😞
Alexis Jordan·
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@bebefever94 does she have kids?
CAS·
@alexisjordan.ky, yes a son
Alexis Jordan·
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@bebefever94 ask her if she remembers what it's like having a bunch of visitors and stuff and just tell her you were really tired and just wanted to sleep. And that you didn't want really anyone there, not just her.
Dez·
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Just explain after u didn't feel up for visitors. Nothing against her personally u just didn't want anyone cept buddy.