Needed to vent.... My boyfriend went into his grandma and sons bedroom to go lay down with his son…

Yes I think you are. Be happy that he loves his son and wants to be there for him. Do not be mad at him ...that little boy needs his dad too and he is actually there. Your still newly pregnant ...once you get bigger he will slowly adapt to the baby. Men need more time to process things and most won't until towards the end when things become more surreal

@ecahanes im 4 months pregnant and he works ALL week. My belly is already starting to show. Im mad because its 24/7 and I try to be understanding but at the same time you can find time to spend with your son but not your other baby. Its like im stuck going EVERYTHING by myself

I agree with @ecahanes it pretty much takes the baby being here for men to connect and for Mama's is different cause we are carrying them and feel everything. @christiannastillwell189720 I bet if he is as good of daddy to his son, he will be just as amazing to his next one 😊 you are lucky to have a man that wants to be around his kids all day every day! Maybe you two can do a staycation or hot date before the new baby arrives.

@scidg3 he doesn't do ANYTHING with me. I cook clean and put baby things together by myself while he rough houses with his son until 12 AM but complains about being tired from work. And its even when he's off. Its all week

Don't forget he has been through this before...it's not new to him. My husband was different when I was pregnant the second time rather then first.

A lot of women would want to be in your position. He seems like a hard working man who loves his kids. He will love this one just as much. Sounds like you need more of a date night for you two

@ecahanes he wasn't with his baby mother when she was pregnant with his son. She lived across the state

@ecahanes and when I ask for one night im a selfish btch.

Ive been in a similar situation.

When I was pregnant with my son by husband would spend most his time with his 2 year old. It didnt bother me much because it showed he was a good dad. Plus he knew once the baby came he wasn't going to be able to give his son as much attention as before. It's important for them to spend the extra time with them it can be annoy my husband and I got into a few arguments but it's important for a father and there child to spend that time together. And as a prior comment said at 13 weeks there isn't much a father can do. Us as mom's bond with a baby immediately with the dad it usually doesn't happen till either later in the pregnancy or when they can physically hold the baby.

@ecahanes, yes!! Very true

Men don’t really see it as bonding when your pregnant it should like your jealous of a 4 year old u should be happy he loves his kids

And I’m totally not trying to be rude I have felt with the same thing but with a 11 year old and that made it much worse because he’s pretty much a teenager lol I ended up pretty much resenting the kid and I had to chill out a lot I still don’t like him but I love my husband and now our son (our only together) is the center of attention and is the apply of his dads eye but a 4 year old is still a baby really and needs a lot of love