It's funny how pregnancy brings out the worst fears and stress...sometimes I wish I could be alone:/…
It's funny how pregnancy brings out the worst fears and stress...sometimes I wish I could be alone:/ My fiance thinks he can run our sons life becuase he wasn't there for his daughter cos he didn't know about her. Is it bad that I want to tell himif he's so distraught he can go be with her. He doesnt want me to know her or anything...so I feel like that's the only route he secretly wants to take...
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U can’t fault him for not knowing he had a daughter. He’s not trying to run your sons life, it’s things in life that men can only teach a man, let him be a father.
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@shyia722 what got me is tonight he said "Thats my son and I will raise him how I see fit" with him lately its been about him and not us. Plus its making me afraid hes just regretting all he missed
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@ccrawr, and that might be that he’s scared, but if he’s really focused on being a father don’t take that joy away, many women don’t have that.
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@shyia722 I know its just very hard to tell with him
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@ccrawr, I hope everything gets better
Christina C.·
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@shyia722 ty I'm hoping so too. I'm wondering if u might be right about him being scared..it's like since I've developed past half way point maybe it's hitting him to be really real
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@ccrawr, if a man is trying to be a good father, and something he takes it over board, it’s ok. Don’t let minor things damper his parade. Because we don’t want him turning around and not being there. Enjoy it laugh it off and talk about it later in a joking way. Always tell him how much u appreciate the effort he’s putting in. It goes along way.