I don't know much longer I can be here at my moms. 😑 but I got no choice. I can't wait to start working again after this baby is born. I have a uncle who stays here but he's overweight like 500 lbs and he thinks everyone is his slave around here. I hate that they let him stuff his face and he just gags and gags trying not to throw up after he's done eating. My mom (that's her brother) cleans up after him so much and he's so disrespectful to her too. She cleans his clothes and blankets (he wears diapers so he pees alot on his stuff) and room and feeds him. But she complains about how his room stays smelling like urine but they always buy him diet cokes. That's like all he drinks and it's so annoying I keep telling them to stop buying him sodas. He's a diabetic. He can walk but his legs are turning black because he just sits on his butt all day and demands everyone to bring stuff to him. 😑 and he's always telling me to go to work or go somewhere because I always tell him something. My mom is thinking about putting him in a nursing home but I don't think she has the heart to do that but she already deals with alot because I have a 27 yr old sister who has anxiety super bad and can't work and has to go with my mom EVERYWHERE she goes and she stays in a bad mood because she has to follow my mom but she doesn't try to get out of that. And when I say everywhere I mean everywhere even if it's just to go get 1 thing from the store.
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@sjo1 oh lol ima look into it once I take my boys a bath and make them lay down lol
@d0iinjusfiin3 no it's low income apartments lol! Look into it seriously, sometimes they have lists too.
@sjo1 I think you mean housing, no?? I think the waiting list here is a couple yrs but I should jump on that now.
@isme_2223 aww thank you!! My mom tells me that all the time. They had a time they struggled for about 3 yrs when they lost everything because my dad is a pastor and he felt God wanted him to become one full time and he did and quit his job (which he just got a promotion for). There was times my mom wanted to leave him because she was tired of struggling but she's a Christian as well and stood by him. I helped them money wise and they even stayed with me a couple months and it wasn't just my parents it was them and my sister they one with anxiety and my 12 yr old sister. But they recently got a house maybe a few months ago. They are renting here but still it's a big step from living with ppl for that many yrs after always having their own place. So I need to stick it out. It's only temporary ☹
@d0iinjusfiin3 yes they do! Esp for single mothers girl!! Look into it asap! if there's a waiting list apply and you'll get called eventually. Hopefully sooner then later
I'm am so sorry your going through that. But don't let go of hope, GOD will make everything work for you. You are so beautiful and I'm sure your very smart too. We all have time we fall and get back up. I'll be praying for you
@sjo1 oh wow really?? I never looked into it but now I'm going to because I want to get out of here as soon as I can lol. Hopefully they have apts like that near me.
Yeah they would because obesity is no joke. Yeah a low income apt would be convinent and they go off of your incomes so if you only got 100 or less then 100 your rent would be like $50 but go up when you started working. I use to have a low income apt and I had no job or money coming in. I just said I'd clean for my mom and she would pay me and my rent was about $26. it helped out SO much! @d0iinjusfiin3
@sjo1 that's how my uncle is. Maybe he does need to be in a nursing home so they can put him on a diet. And my aunt was telling me about low income apartments but my job told me last week when I was out for my son's tonsil removal surgery, to just go back after I have the baby. Because I had appt after appt. So now I don't have no money coming in besides my youngest son's child support but that's less than 100 every 2 weeks. I had some income tax left over but most of it I put to my car payment and car insurance for the next 3 months. Thank God lol I don't have to pay anything here but still I wanted to work at least until I was 38 weeks. But oh well.
@d0iinjusfiin3 yeah same! I know how that shit goes! have you tried maybe a low income apt??
I would not baby my uncle! It literally gets into their heads that they can't do anything because they are fat. At an old nursing home I use to work at there was a lady who weighed about 400+ lbs and she wanted to eat and drink things she knew she couldn't. lile wtf
@sjo1 Ugh it sucks I been having my own apt since my youngest wasn't even a yr old and that was without the help of their dads. So it was hard for me to come and move back with my parents.
@d0iinjusfiin3 ugh I'm sorry that sucks!! You're pregnancy is almost over hang in there mama
@sjo1 lmao girl mine too I know they get on my parents nerves. I barely moved here the end of Feb because my lease was up. And I didn't know how much longer I was going to be working since I didn't have much longer until the baby is born so I just came here for a bit until I start working again. I'm not with my kids dad. I had to kick him out from my apt because he couldn't stop the shit he was doing. 🤷♀️ he used to living with his parents though. I'm not. 😑
that freaking sucks, I'm sorry girl! I don't think I could ever live at my mom's again either. It truly drives me crazy lol and besides that my kids start acting like they have no discipline! lol
And my mom just told him again his room smells bad like urine and he's like "what are you talking about the pinesol is real powerful" 😂 Oh my gosh. Smh
@d0iinjusfiin3 call around tomorrow too!!