I'm 32 years old and my daughters father is 24 years old. How did the f**k this happen bc I don't age and I'm a good time. The good times got me pregnant.. Lol there's a lot of ups and downs. He just recently told me, "that he hasn't lived his life and I did" I told him, "then why did you stick your dick and came in me knowingly it was/wasnt going to happen? " he said "I didn't think it was going to happen ". So now I'm extremely mean to him. Yes he drinks a lot because there's no responsibility at the moment. You guys are young and it's only going to get worse and worse. Let him be or you'll find him lying and hiding shit behind ur back just so he can live his life. I know you want it to work so badly but a man needs his own time to mature into a man. It sucks but u gotta give him space.

@memybumpandi, thank you so much

@bearaboo4, write it out, it helps there are too many thoughts going through your mind. Write a note to yourself in your phone or notebook. If you want delete it so its gone or keep it and read back in a few months and see how far you have come. But get the thoughts out, its so therapeutic.

@memybumpandi, I just can’t sleep at all

@bearaboo4, we have all had that one guy or two LOL! That has literally drained us at one point. But you will come through it. Xxxx

@memybumpandi, thank you so much this is helping so much

He has made his choice, cool. It hurts and its not easy but one day you’ll look back and laugh.

@bearaboo4, cry its healthy our tears have natural painkillers in them its soothing. Let that anger out BUT stop. Don’t let it consume you. There is nothing more determined nor powerful than a woman who has cried her last tear.

@memybumpandi, thank you so much it means so much I kinda want to cry

@bearaboo4, You know what it is, he is 19 his boys are “living life” he feels he is missing out. But he doesn’t realise that children and a good woman dont come easily. The easy road always looks tempting for a reason.

But honestly, do you. Cry your tears, then stop and build your life. By the time he is “ready” you would have long surpassed him.

@muva.tings2018, she with her dad we have split custody. I called him and he said he will let me see her tomorrow before work

@pierced_momma, thank you so much!

@bearaboo4 oh shit then he's just mean spirited. One beer shouldn't do all of that. He's young. Well enough about him. Where was your babygirl? How are you both doing?

Hey we live in the same city and i just want you to know im here for you if you ever need someone to talk to and you're doing a great job, it takes a lot of strength to say you'd rather be single than have an unhealthy relationship

@muva.tings2018, he only 19